You plan to move to the Philippines? Wollen Sie auf den Philippinen leben?

There are REALLY TONS of websites telling us how, why, maybe why not and when you'll be able to move to the Philippines. I only love to tell and explain some things "between the lines". Enjoy reading, be informed, have fun and be entertained too!

Ja, es gibt tonnenweise Webseiten, die Ihnen sagen wie, warum, vielleicht warum nicht und wann Sie am besten auf die Philippinen auswandern könnten. Ich möchte Ihnen in Zukunft "zwischen den Zeilen" einige zusätzlichen Dinge berichten und erzählen. Viel Spass beim Lesen und Gute Unterhaltung!


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Showing posts with label Anna Cristina Tuazon. Show all posts
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Thursday, August 28, 2025

‘It’s just a lifestyle show’

 

‘It’s just a lifestyle show’

Anna Cristina Tuazon

Media ethics became a hot topic over the weekend, with some prominent broadcasters called out for featuring the ostentatious wealth of the Discayas, the controversial owners of two of the top 15 construction companies, who amassed billions from flood control projects. With Sarah Discaya having already filed for candidacy at the time, the timing of these interviews last year begged the question of whether they were part of her promotional campaign for mayor of Pasig City. It was already raised if it was appropriate—or even inspiring—to feature a “rags-to-riches” story about contractors who got their wealth from government projects.

An often-cited defense for such media pieces is that it was a lifestyle show and not investigative journalism. As such, they reasoned that it was not their place to question or probe their subjects even when red flags occurred. It is their story to tell, so who are we to question it?

This reminds me of my four-year stint hosting a small public affairs program. One could consider us “lifestyle,” in that we featured human interest stories and looked for inspiring stories of triumph against adversity. But since we were under the banner of “news and public affairs,” we also took our mission of providing education to the public seriously. I’m thankful that our executive producer, Janus Victoria, was unwavering in this regard. She exercised strict quality control that whatever topic we featured had to be treated with enough depth. She disciplined us in finding quality case studies and was discerning about whether useful lessons could be gleaned from their experiences. There were a few times that we decided not to air an episode, especially when we felt that our guest was being disingenuous or had nothing substantial to say on the matter.

My identity—and ethics—as a psychologist didn’t disappear just because I was on the screen. I was hired to host the show precisely because of my profession, to bring a mental health angle to issues of the day. As such, I took care that nothing in our show, either in our content or the way we treated our guests (and each other), would violate my principles as a mental health advocate. I would not allow mentally harmful views to be left unquestioned on air. I would engage with my guest so that multiple perspectives can be highlighted, helping our viewers discern for themselves. When guests talked about their success, I made sure to elucidate the struggles and challenges they faced along the way, as well as the privileges that helped them get there. This was to make sure that viewers won’t feel dissatisfied or disappointed in themselves for somehow not achieving the same success. I wanted them to understand that success has multiple routes, some easier and some harder, and almost always with a lot of luck.

There were also times when I had to take the conversation off-air as it became too personal, requiring my full clinical attention. We were careful to ensure continuing psychological support and resources for guests who needed it. Sometimes we would receive emails from viewers asking for professional advice; we treated those seriously and did not use them for our show.

This is why I cannot understand why the accused show runners would insist that they have no say in the treatment of their interview with the Discayas. As journalism professor Danilo Arao said in an interview about the issue, one cannot stop being a journalist just because one is on a different platform. Similarly, my profession and ethics as a psychologist did not stop simply because I hosted a TV show. Professional ethics should run through every aspect of production. From choosing the topic, choosing the guest, deciding on an angle and how to package the content. The interview should be run ethically; we need to treat both guests and viewers with respect and dignity. One can remain respectful and nonconfrontative in an interview while also making sure that viewers have all the information and context they need to make informed opinions about the subject.

If a small show like ours could exercise editorial control, what more of these big shows with big-name hosts? They are not struggling in ratings; they can have their pick of the litter when it comes to guests. Their reputation has secured them significant autonomy from their networks to run their show as they see fit. We had to balance our topics to keep us afloat in views (and keep the higher-ups appeased). Yes, our most viewed episodes tend to be about sex and relationships. But even those subjects were treated with depth. I made sure we did not turn the topics into a laughing matter. As a psychologist and educator, I made sure that viewers would be able to learn something useful, even with such light-hearted subjects.

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Lifestyle can have depth. Lifestyle can be critical. Most of all, lifestyle should uplift and provide insights that improve people’s quality of life. It is never “just” lifestyle.

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aatuazon@up.edu.ph

Thursday, June 26, 2025

Why kids break

 

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Why kids break


Kids cannot tolerate mistakes because the world does not tolerate mistakes. When mistakes become unacceptable, the situation turns desperate. The world is no longer worth living in when our mistakes follow us wherever we go. If the kids have become fragile, it is only because the world would rather break them than let them bend.

Thursday, April 3, 2025

Decluttering your stress

Anna Cristina Tuazon

April is Stress Awareness Month. Stress is an all-too-familiar word. We all experience it and usually more often than we’d like. The World Health Organization defines stress as a “state of worry or mental tension caused by a difficult situation,” while the American Psychological Association assures us that stress is a “normal reaction to everyday pressures.” Since living has its ups and downs, there is no such thing as a stress-free life. Stress, despite its unpleasant sensations, is a good tool for survival. It prompts our body systems to be on alert and ready for challenges. The increased heart rate? That’s to get ourselves ready to run or fight. What differentiates healthy stress from unhealthy stress is its chronicity. Even soldiers need time to rest and recover; our bodies, too, need to recover from a stressed state so that it is ready for the next emergency.

Then there is overwhelming stress: the sheer amount of stressors we face at any given time. Sometimes it cannot be helped, especially in certain high-pressure jobs. However, in my clinical experience, I find that we add more stressors on our plate that we don’t need. Just like we do for the home, let’s declutter our stresses so that we can make more space for joy and ease:

Sort your stressors


Thursday, December 5, 2024

Christmas wonder


Anna Cristina Tuazon

The Christmas season is in full swing. The lighting of Christmas trees has started in various city centers. Parol and lanterns are strung up along avenues. Christmas festivals and marketplaces have been set up, enticing Filipinos to go out and shop. Most welcoming of all is that most Christmas sights are free or at little cost. From a usual lack of public leisure spaces, we are suddenly faced with an abundance of lights and decors, with every city boasting its own attraction.

“Make sure to pass by the munisipyo,” reminded my sister-in-law during a hometown visit in Rizal. Sure enough, we were awed by the brightly lit arches and yuletide ornaments. From nondescript government buildings relevant only for business transactions, these buildings now feel like genuine communal spaces, with families spending quality time together after a hard day’s work, groups of teenagers laughing and hanging out, workers sampling holiday food from street stalls.

It makes sense to me that Filipinos celebrate Christmas for as long as they can, from September to January. The more chaotic and challenging our daily life becomes, the more we need Christmas. Filipinos are known to celebrate even in the hardest of times. During disasters, our sense of humor and fun get us through—just look at children going for a swim in floodwaters, a practice now discouraged by the Department of Health due to the risk of leptospirosis and other diseases. When our politics venture into the absurd, we use our uncanny ability to make a meme out of life (a sign of Filipinos’ creativity, despite what the Programme for International Student Assessment says). If there’s even a bit of fun in something, you bet Filipinos can find it.