You plan to move to the Philippines? Wollen Sie auf den Philippinen leben?

There are REALLY TONS of websites telling us how, why, maybe why not and when you'll be able to move to the Philippines. I only love to tell and explain some things "between the lines". Enjoy reading, be informed, have fun and be entertained too!

Ja, es gibt tonnenweise Webseiten, die Ihnen sagen wie, warum, vielleicht warum nicht und wann Sie am besten auf die Philippinen auswandern könnten. Ich möchte Ihnen in Zukunft "zwischen den Zeilen" einige zusätzlichen Dinge berichten und erzählen. Viel Spass beim Lesen und Gute Unterhaltung!


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Monday, November 2, 2026

Michelle Dee has unfinished business in pageantry

 

RAZZLE-DAZA - Pat-P Daza - The Philippine Star 
Michelle Dee has unfinished business in pageantry
Michelle Dee is once again embracing the world of pageantry as she prepares to compete in MGI All Stars, a Miss Grand International initiative for women who have previously competed in international pageants.  

From beauty queen to actress, model and advocate, Michelle Dee has shown that there is life — and purpose — beyond the pageant stage.

She first captured international attention when she represented the Philippines at the Miss World 2019 pageant in London, finishing in the Top 12. Four years later, she won the Miss Universe Philippines 2023 crown and went on to represent the country at the Miss Universe pageant in El Salvador, where she placed in the Top 10 and received four special awards. Although she did not bring home either international crown, both competitions helped establish Michelle as one of the country’s most recognizable beauty queens.  

Pageantry is, in many ways, part of her family story. She is the daughter of actress and fashion model Melanie Marquez, who won the Miss International crown in 1979, and Derek Dee, a film producer and former action star. Her paternal grandparents were the late Dee K. Chiong, former president of China Banking Corporation, and philanthropist Regina Yui Dee. It is perhaps fitting, then, that Michelle became Chinabank’s first-ever brand ambassador.

Michelle appears in ‘Red Crown,’ a GMA Pictures film that brings the colorful and competitive world of beauty pageants to the big screen.

But Michelle is much more than her famous surname or pageant titles. She has steadily built her own career as an actress, model and talk show host while using her platform to champion causes close to her heart, particularly autism acceptance, mental health awareness and LGBTQIA+ rights. A member of the LGBTQIA+ community, she publicly came out as bisexual in May 2023, further strengthening her commitment to visibility, acceptance and inclusion.   

Today, Michelle is once again embracing the world of pageantry as she prepares to compete in MGI All Stars, a Miss Grand International initiative for women who have previously competed in international pageants. At the same time, she is appearing in “Red Crown,” a GMA Pictures film that brings the colorful and competitive world of beauty pageants to the big screen.

With several roles to juggle and new challenges ahead, Michelle remains determined to tell her story on her own terms. In this interview, she talks about her decision to return to pageantry, the lessons she has learned from acting, her advocacy work and the person behind the public image.

You were crowned Miss Universe Philippines 2023 and were recently announced as a candidate for Miss Grand International’s MGI All Stars. What made you decide to return to pageantry?

“Hashtag ‘Dee Pa Tapos’ has always been more than a name. They’re the people who stayed after Miss Universe and reminded me that one result was never the whole story. I came home without the international crown, but people connected with what we had created. That connection helped me build a career beyond pageantry.    

“There is still a moment I want to share with them and my family. My mom, Melanie Marquez, and my cousin, Winwyn Marquez, have each brought home an international crown. I want to earn the third international crown for the Marquez family. Having a career I’m proud of hasn’t made that dream less personal.

“That is what I appreciate about MGI All Stars. It recognizes that there is more to a woman than her last placement. There is everything she experienced, built and became afterward. I think that is a meaningful story to give a stage to.

“I’m a storyteller, so I don’t want to simply repeat a performance people already know. I want to bring those years into the fashion, the performance and what I have to say. I want to win, of course. But I also want someone watching to feel that building a life doesn’t mean they have to let go of a dream.”

Beauty pageants for both men and women have become increasingly popular around the world. What do you think participants gain from joining these competitions?

“You discover a lot about yourself when you prepare for something that matters to you. How do you handle pressure? Can you take criticism without losing your confidence? Can you communicate what you believe in, not just what people expect to hear?

“For me, pageantry also gave a personal commitment a much bigger audience. Autism acceptance comes from my experience with my brothers. The competition gave me an opportunity to bring that conversation beyond my own family.

“There are opportunities, relationships and skills you can carry into other parts of your life. But you have to know why you are joining and what you want to do with the attention. A competition gives you a result. It shouldn’t decide everything you believe about yourself afterward. The real benefit is leaving with more understanding of who you are—and putting that understanding to work.”

You wear several hats as a beauty queen and actress. How do you define these two roles, and what kind of discipline does each profession demand?

“In pageantry, I bring my own story to the stage. In acting, I have to make room for someone else’s. As a beauty queen, I’m conscious of how I represent myself, my advocacies and the Philippines. As an actress, I have to understand a character — even when her experiences or decisions are different from mine. Acting helped me become more emotionally open, and that has influenced how I connect with people in my other work, too. Both involve storytelling, but they require different kinds of preparation.

Emotion comes first in my creative process; discipline is what allows me to deliver it consistently.

“For me, that means knowing the material, respecting people’s time, listening to direction and being honest about the commitments I can take on. Balance also requires a team. There are people behind every performance, and I don’t take their work for granted. I want to be someone people can trust to deliver — not only someone they recognize.”

Tell us about “Red Crown.” What is your role in the film, and how much of your real-life personality can you see in your character?

“In ‘Red Crown,’ I play Wendy Li, the Queen of Binondo. She is very composed, commanding and particular about how she presents herself. The film takes the world of pageantry and pushes it into satire, comedy and a fight for survival. It’s familiar territory, but definitely not a familiar pageant!

“What excited me was seeing two worlds I known— acting and pageantry — come together. There were moments that felt familiar because I’ve lived through the preparation and pressure. I also got to share my pageant experience with the production and help where I could.

“I can relate to Wendy’s attention to detail and the effort behind looking composed. But understanding her doesn’t mean simply playing myself. I bring what I know about that world, then explore who she is within it.

“I think GMA Pictures has created something audiences can have fun with: you recognize the gowns, the competition and some of your favorite queens, but you get to see them in a completely different situation.”

You always look radiant and fit. How do you maintain your figure, and what is your beauty routine?

“I’ve always been active. Weight training, swimming and yoga have all been part of my routine. I prefer a balanced, consistent approach to food and fitness rather than crash diets. I want to feel strong and have the energy to do my work, not only look ready for a photograph.

“For skincare, I like keeping the basics consistent: removing makeup properly, cleansing, using a serum and moisturizing. I’m careful with my skin because work can mean spending a lot of time in makeup.

“And I have to give credit to the people behind the finished look! A red-carpet photograph involves styling, lighting and a glam team. I don’t want someone comparing their everyday reflection to a fully prepared image.

“Taking care of myself should help me feel comfortable in my own skin — not make me feel that I’m constantly correcting something.”

As an advocate for the LGBTQIA+ community, what changes or reforms would you like to see in the Philippines? How are you using your platform to help bring them about?

“I want acceptance to be something people experience in everyday life, not something they only hear in a speech.

“I grew up with acceptance in my family, and I know that not everyone has that experience. As a bisexual woman, this is personal. I want young people to know they can have ambitions and a future without being made to feel that who they are is something to apologize for.

“I would like stronger, enforceable protections against discrimination — at school, at work and when accessing healthcare. Education matters, too. People need to understand different identities, and institutions need clear ways to respond when someone is treated unfairly. Those are changes I want to use my voice to support.

“My own contribution has included speaking openly about my identity and bringing that message into my creative work. The Pride version of Reyna was a celebration of people finding strength in who they are. I’ve also spoken about the importance of conversations around SOGIE equality.

“Visibility is one part of change. I want the confidence people feel when they see themselves represented to be matched by how they are treated when they step outside.”

Comedian Ate Gay passes away


Published Nov 1, 2026 11:02 pm
  • Filipino comedian Ate Gay, whose real name was Gil Aducal Morales, dies after battling stage 4 cancer. His family asks for prayers as they mourn his passing.
Comedian Ate Gay, real name Gil Aducal Morales, has died, his family announced Sunday, November 1.
Morales passed away peacefully surrounded by his loved ones, according to a family statement. His relatives also thanked those who offered prayers, financial assistance and emotional support during his illness.
The family said it was grateful for the outpouring of kindness throughout the comedian’s health struggles and asked the public to continue praying for his eternal repose and for comfort for those he left behind.
Details of his wake and funeral arrangements will be announced at a later date.
Morales had publicly disclosed in September 2025 that he was battling stage 4 cancer, sharing his desire to continue living as he sought support from the public.
His condition took a critical turn on October 30, when he suffered a stroke affecting the right side of his brain. He was subsequently diagnosed with septic shock and acute respiratory failure linked to pneumonia.
In October, the comedian also held a “living funeral,” allowing family and friends to gather and pay tribute to him while he was still alive.

The Power of Positive Thinking

Because negativity breeds anxiety, stress and self doubt.

“What the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”

  1. VISUALIZE SUCCESS DAILY

Many people struggle with self-doubt and a lack of direction.

Spend few minutes each day picturing yourself achieving your goals.

This simple habit helps shift your mindset to focus on possibility and success.

2. REPLACE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS WITH POSITIVES

Negative thoughts can cloud your judgement and sap your motivation.

When a negative thought pops up, consciously replace it with a positive one.

For example, instead of “I can't do this,” try “I can do this with practice.”

3. PRACTICE GRATITUDE

It's easy to focus on what's going wrong in our lives and forget the good.

Every morning, list three things you're grateful for.

This builds a positive mindset and helps you focus on the good in your life.

“You can't always control what goes on outside, but you can always control what goes on inside”

4. USE AFFIRMATIONS

Self-doubt can hold you back from reaching your potential.

Create short, positive affirmations like “I am capable” or “I can handle this.”

Repeat them throughout the day to reinforce confidence.

5. AVOID THE WORRY HABIT

Worrying can consume your energy and prevent you from taking action.

Instead of worrying, think of positive steps to take.

Focus on actions that lead to solutions rather than dwelling on problems.

6. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVITY

Negative people can drain your energy and impact your mood.

Spend time with people who lift you up and avoid those who bring negative energy.

Positivity is contagious.

“The only limit to our realisation of tomorrow is our doubts of today” — Franklin D. Roosevelt

Why can’t Germans understand Austrian German?


Why can’t Germans understand Austrian German, and if they can’t understand it, then how can Austrians understand German from Germany?

When two Austrians chat casually in Vienna, a German from Hamburg will be completely lost. Yet the Austrians understand the German perfectly—a one-way street built by a media imbalance.

What most Germans struggle to understand is not standard Austrian German, but Austro-Bavarian dialect. The German-speaking world is split by a massive dialect continuum. While standard written German developed from central and southern varieties, northern Germans historically adopted it almost as a foreign language, pronouncing it exactly as it was spelled. This eventually became the standard pronunciation across the region. Meanwhile, the southern areas, which include Bavaria and almost all of Austria, retained their deep local dialects for daily life. Because of their unique vowel shifts, grammar, and vocabulary, that same casual conversation will sound like a foreign language to a northern German. However, a Bavarian from Munich will understand it quite well, because they share the same Austro-Bavarian dialect family.

The reason this confusion rarely flows in reverse—Austrians failing to understand Germans—comes down to media dominance and education. Standard German (Hochdeutsch) is the language of schooling, literature, and formal life in Austria. Crucially, the media landscape is heavily tilted toward Germany. Nearly all dubbed international movies, major television broadcasts, and widely consumed digital content in the region are produced in Germany using standard German.

Austrians grow up fully immersed in the standard pronunciation and vocabulary of Germany. When an Austrian speaks to someone from Berlin or Cologne, they subconsciously code-switch. They drop their heaviest dialect features, swap out Austrian-specific vocabulary—using the German Tomate instead of the Austrian Paradeiser (tomato)—and adopt a standardized speech. The German, having rarely consumed Austrian media or studied southern dialects, simply lacks this daily exposure to return the favor.

A border marker on a cycle trail in the Alps separates Germany and Austria. Photo by Mike Knell is licensed under CC BY-SA 2.0.

What are some things you realize as you get older?

 

1.

To avoid disappointment, take people for what they are and not what they could be.

2.

The insults, judgements, and the negativity people attempt to throw your way are actually reflections of their own insecurities and are absolutely irrelevant to you and your life.

3.

People are who they are, and there’s no any other way to look at them.

4.

Mature enough to wish the best for people who no longer talk with you. Because after all their achievements or failures do nothing for you personally.

5.

You will continue to suffer, if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. It’s a choice to let dumb things affect you.

6.

People will disappoint you. So learn not to take everything to heart.

7.

Be gentle to yourself. Because you don’t need one more critic picking at your insecurities.

8.

You are allowed to do what’s best for you, even if it upsets people. You are not responsible for how people react, when you’re trying to do the best for you.

Sunday, November 1, 2026

The hope of All Souls’ Day



By Fr. Roy Cimagala

Chaplain


Center for Industrial Technology and Enterprise (CITE)


Talamban, Cebu City

Email: roycimagala@gmail.com


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Life is short—why not do good?


Published Nov 1, 2026 12:05 am
Today, Nov. 1, is All Saints’ Day, which this year falls on a Sunday, a day traditionally devoted to worship, family, and reflection. Tomorrow, All Souls’ Day, Filipinos will continue the tradition of remembering departed loved ones, visiting cemeteries, offering prayers, and passing on traditions that have endured through generations.
Beyond these traditions, however, these two days carry a message that deserves greater reflection: Life is fragile, and our time on earth is limited.
No one knows when that time will end. What seems like an ordinary day could be someone’s last. Not everyone has the privilege of knowing when the final chapter of life will be written.
Even popular culture has reminded us of this reality. More than two decades ago, a band composed of brothers released a song titled “If Life Is So Short,” which asked a simple question about love before time runs out. As sappy as its message may sound, it reveals a truth that is often forgotten in the rush of everyday living.
If life is indeed so short, why not make the most of it? Why not love more, forgive more, and above all, do good?
These questions become more relevant in a world where the headlines are increasingly dominated by crime, violence, corruption, and suffering. There seems to be an endless supply of reasons to become cynical, angry, and hopeless.
Economic uncertainties have added to this prevailing gloom. Inflation, the peso’s exchange rate, and the rising cost of living weigh heavily on Filipino families. With the holiday season approaching, many households are wondering how they can celebrate Christmas meaningfully without spending beyond their means.
Yet amid these difficulties, kindness remains something that does not require wealth. A helping hand, an honest gesture, a comforting word, or a simple act of generosity can make a difference in another person’s life.
Doing good need not involve grand gestures. Sometimes, it begins with choosing honesty when dishonesty offers greater rewards, compassion when indifference seems easier, and humility when power encourages arrogance.
Consider the continuing allegations of corruption, kickbacks, and suitcases supposedly filled with money. Those implicated may possess financial advantages that ordinary Filipinos can only imagine. But these controversies raise a fundamental question about greed: How much is enough?
How many millions—or billions—must one accumulate to satisfy an appetite for wealth? Financial security is certainly important, and providing for one’s family is a legitimate aspiration. But at what expense? At whose expense? And ultimately, to what end?
No amount of money can purchase another lifetime. Wealth and influence cannot guarantee immunity from mortality. In death, the powerful and the powerless face the same inevitable destination.
This is not an argument against ambition or prosperity. Rather, it is a reminder that success should never be measured solely by what we accumulate, but also by what we contribute and by the lives we touch.
As families gather around the graves of their loved ones today, they will remember not merely the possessions left behind, but the love, generosity, sacrifices, and kindness that made those lives meaningful.
Perhaps that is the greatest lesson of these solemn observances. We honor the departed by remembering how they lived, but we honor life itself by choosing how we live today.
We are merely temporary custodians of our time on earth. We cannot determine how long we will remain here, but we can decide what to do with the time given to us.
Life is short. Why not do good?

How do you tell if the relationship is heading somewhere?


This is a good question…

Aside from relationships which never should have formed, I don't think couples need to overthink long-term compatibility during a first year. Beyond this point is dependent upon circumstances.

Twenty years olds with plenty of life ahead verses couples in their forties starting out with remaining hopes of becoming parents face completely different relationship timeframes. Career focuses affect young adults while extra commitments like parenting for older individuals factor into how they progress within relationships.

I've lived the in-between scenario (27-35, eight year relationship, married and one daughter) while now in a relationship with a nearly forty year old girlfriend that wants children. Being forty-three with a daughter, my intentions weren't to have more children and now I'm open to such possibility.

The journey has been perhaps a little unorthodox. We haven't met each other's people and sporadically told individuals we're in a relationship, meaning our lives have remained somewhat compartmentalised.

My general feeling regarding long-term relationships is that when you reach a second Christmas together while continuing to remain seperate (not spending it together, yet to introduce each other to family) - it may be a sign of relationship stagnation. This appears likely for us in a few months, even without my daughter's presence at Christmas...

How do I feel regarding our progress?

Beginning from three years after divorce, I've felt like years left from then until I'm about fifty-five will be most precious to experience happiness within my lifespan. Furthermore, I'm not confident about potentially having mortality longevity. This has resulted in a mindset nearing existential nihilism which values now more than unpromised future.

Being motivated for causing my girlfriend's happiness and not heavily factoring in potential eventual risks that come with any long-term relationships involving procreation and/or living together (perhaps involving marriage) - I have become willing to endeavour. Initially my suggestions were doing proper steps, like renting together, seeing how we'd go living together while combining our lifestyles. She originally wanted to instead jump in head first which I gradually became on board with doing and now most recently, her perspective has fallen somewhere between my original position and her wanting to jump in making how exactly we'll proceed currently unclear 🫠

My only real certainty is loving her, providing the happiness she deserves and potentially wishing for us to see each other more frequently (including additional sleepovers). There's no confusion in our mutual feelings, just working out how to progress within the relationship.

Her level of independence, commitment to helping parents, busy work lifestyle and dogs for company makes our routine living seperately with a few weekly visits quite manageable. But from my perspective, I'm somewhat co-dependent, live alone, not passionate regarding employment, mostly experience fulfilment through company and writing is the closest example of a passion. We have very different life experiences for our relationship. I'm somewhat lonely while she's distracted.

Needing to deeply think regarding our relationship trajectory is mostly associated with her desire to have children and secondly for my wishes to see each other more frequently (both suited for potentially living together). Otherwise we'd have no motivation for rushing anything, like in most younger people's circumstances.

Now what?…

Hopefully without ever sinking! 💞

What are some unique Filipino traditions or customs that are often misunderstood by foreigners?

In the Philippines, a loud "psst" and pursed lips aren't rude catcalls. They are perfectly polite ways to get someone's attention across a room or point out directions.

These daily habits belong to a set of uniquely Filipino customs that are deeply communal at home, but often translate poorly to outsiders.

Because pointing with an index finger is considered aggressive, locals instead point out objects by pursing their lips and tilting their head toward the target. To a foreigner, this sudden gesture can look like an unexpected attempt to blow a kiss or a sarcastic smirk.

A similar disconnect happens vocally. While making a "psst" sound in the West is usually a patronizing demand for silence, in the Philippines, it is the standard, non-confrontational way to catch someone's eye. It allows people to get a waiter's or a friend's attention without shouting, even though visitors often feel they are being rudely shushed.

Food traditions also clash with Western norms. Filipino dining is deeply communal, best exemplified by kamayan—the practice of eating with bare hands. During a communal feast known as a "boodle fight," a mountain of rice, grilled meats, and seafood is laid out symmetrically on long banana leaves.

During a boodle fight, diners stand shoulder-to-shoulder and eat with their bare hands from a shared spread of rice, seafood, and grilled meats arranged on banana leaves. Photo by Ej Afable is licensed under CC BY-SA 4.0.

Foreigners sometimes view eating without utensils as unhygienic or primitive. In reality, it is a highly structured tradition that symbolizes equality and closeness. Diners wash their hands thoroughly before eating and use only one hand to neatly compress the food into bite-sized mounds.

Physical greetings carry their own cultural weight. When younger Filipinos greet their elders, they perform pagmamano. They take the elder’s offered hand and gently press the back of it against their own forehead to receive a blessing. Visitors often mistake this for an old-world attempt to kiss their hand or a display of extreme subservience, but it is simply the standard gesture of familial warmth and respect.