The fault we see in others often reveal our own imperfections. We frequently criticize our own shortcomings when we see them in others.
Very often, we hear from colleagues, neighbors, friends or family members and others things they seem to hate. They even criticize other people about their looks or activities during weekends, vacations or off days. Most of the time, gossiping can really easily ruins others' life.
And where does gossip start? Gossips come about because of envy. Why not try to love unlovables instead of giving so many negative comments and criticisms? Why not examine ourselves first before criticizing others?
Upon examination of my own life, I'm annoyed when others are late for an appointment and keep me waiting. I really feel angry, when parents speak harshly and treat their children cruelly, when an individual monopolizes the conversation. Or, when others neglect the spiritual side of life in favor of temporary physical pleasures.
At such times when I look inward, I hear the words "Thou art the one". Then I realize that imperfections I see in others are often my own.
When the Lord looks at us, He sees not only what we a re but what He enables us to become. We can learn not to expect too much from ourselves that we become discouraged. The grace of our Lord does not change us unless we respond. It can change our outlook and our attitudes. With changed attitudes, we can become what we otherwise would never be.
