CULTURE CALL - Margie Moran Floirendo - The Philippine Star
February 12, 2025 | 12:00am
I still believe in the old-school magic of romance.
Valentine’s Day is the biggest celebration in our country. Every restaurant rolls out fancy menus, and musicians are booked solid for concerts. Florists are taking reservations for roses from Chile and Colombia as if they’re the hottest tickets in town.
But who is this “Valentine” guy, anyway? It sounds like a trivia question! He was a priest in ancient Rome with a rebellious streak. He secretly married young couples, even though the emperor wanted all the eligible men to be soldiers instead. Not cool, right? For his trouble, he ended up becoming a martyr.
And why do we celebrate on Feb. 14? I like to think Hallmark’s clever marketing made it official — after all, I remember buying cards at Alemars when I was younger. So here we are, with roses, chocolates, and cheesy love songs, all thanks to a priest who believed in love!
Well, in my adult life, I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve received a bouquet of roses with a card. My memory is fuzzy, but I remember getting flowers and chocolates from boyfriends in the past. But in recent years, I would receive it from a dear friend who owned a flower shop. I’ve had a few delightful moments, but they always seem to pass by so quickly. At least I’m on the right track for Valentine’s Day, even if my rose count is more of a garden gnome than a whole bouquet!
At my age, and with my civil status, I find myself in the delightful position of joining all-ladies singles dinners or hanging out with couples. I often get paired with another single lady or one whose husband is staying home. It’s like speed dating with more appetizers and fewer awkward silences!
Meanwhile, it’s a wild time for flower shops around Valentine’s Day. Some husbands really go all out and send multiple gifts, leading to a bit of chaos. Imagine the confusion if one guy sends five bouquets! I can picture the delivery person frantically trying to figure out who gets what—”Wait, was this bouquet for the lovely lady or the mysterious mystery woman?” It’s like a romantic comedy waiting to happen!
Can Cupid survive in today’s world?
With social media taking over, the little guy with the bow and arrow might be in trouble. I mean, who needs Cupid when you can just send a heart emoji, a virtual rose, or even a bouquet with a click? And it’s free.
While sending love online is convenient, it doesn’t quite have the charm or the wow moment of a surprise bouquet or a handwritten note. I still believe in the old-school magic of romance.
But let us not forget that love brings joy and should be a daily act for lovers, spouses, friends, those needing kindness, and even our enemies! The true meaning of love is not based on emojis, emotions, or conditions. After all, loving everyone is God’s command. But let it flow through you.