Do you believe in unconditional love?

 Stars share honest opinions

BY ROBERT REQUINTINA

Jan 30, 2025 07:31 PM

  

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AT A GLANCE

• Among the stars who shared their thoughts on unconditional love include Rhian Ramos, Allen Dizon, director Joel Lamangan, Elizabeth Oropesa, Lotlot De Leon, Paolo Gumabao, and Rico Barrera.

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Rhian Ramos and Allen Dizon in 'Unconditional'

The cast of the upcoming film "Unconditional" under BR Productions recently shared their thoughts on the important idea of unconditional love in romantic relationships.

During a media conference in Quezon City, the stars had meaningful discussions about love. They talked about how love goes beyond conditions and expectations. 

They shared personal stories that showed how selfless love can have a strong impact. These honest reflections explain how true love can build deep connections and strength between partners, even during tough times. 

Among the stars who shared their thoughts on unconditional love include Rhian Ramos, Allen Dizon, director Joel Lamangan, Elizabeth Oropesa, Lotlot De Leon, Paolo Gumabao, and Rico Barrera.

"Pinag-usapan na nga ng cast kung may unconditional sa mundo. Sabi ko magulang is unconditional love. In some way pa rin, may some kind of exchange kung ano yung mapo-provide mo for a person. It is possible na unconditional siya in some ways as long as my needs are met in other ways. Kanya-kanya talaga yan sa mga magpartner kung ano ang napag-usapan ninyo. (There are some conditions you hold emotionally. The cast has already discussed whether there is unconditional love in the world. I said parents are unconditional love. Somehow, there is still some exchange between what you can provide for a person. He is possibly unconditional in some ways as long as my needs are met in other ways. What you've talked about is really up to you as a partner. There are some conditions you hold emotionally)," said Rhian.

Allen answered: "Depende pa rin talaga sa tao. Unconditional ibig sabihin comfortable kayo sa isa't isa. Wala na kayong tinatago sa isa't isa. Alam na ninyo ang mga secrets ninyo at weakness. Pero hindi naman araw araw unconditional ang pagmamahal mo tulad sa mga kaibigan mo. Minsan nawawala. Give and take and relationships. (It really depends on the person. Unconditional means you are comfortable with each other. You don't hide anything from each other. You already know your secrets and weaknesses. But your love isn't always unconditional like it is with your friends. Sometimes it disappears. Relationships are give and take.)

The cast of the movie 'Unconditional'

"May reservations pa rin ako. Hindi pa ako nagkaroon ng relationship na all mine to give. Palaging may natitira. Hindi ko na siguro matatagpuan kasi I'm too old na rin. Hindi ko pa talaga na experience yung all-out. Ang unconditional sa akin is between my dogs and cats. Yan ang unconditional sa akin. (I still have reservations. I've never had a relationship where I'm all mine to give. There's always something left over. I probably won't find it because I'm too old. I haven't really experienced the all-out yet. What's unconditional to me now are my dogs and cats)," said Elizabeth. 

Direk Joel admitted: "Kapag ako ay umibig, lahat binibigay ko. At hindi ako nagsisisi dahil mahal mo. Kapag mahal mo isang tao ano man ang ginawa mo hindi mo pinagsisisihan. Kasi mahal mo. Kung may pagkakamali pwede mo naman unawain at pagbigyan. (When I fall in love, I give everything. And I don't regret it because you love the person. When you love someone, no matter what you do, you don't regret it. Because you love your partner. If there is a mistake, you can understand and forgive.)

"Hindi ako naniniwala na there's a word such as unconditional. Lahat naman tayo may kundisyon eh. Kung unconditional yan that means kahit lokohin ka, bastusin ka, nakawan ka ng pera, or pagtaksilan ka, dapat mahal mo pa rin. Hindi totoo ang unconditional love. You can love, yes, pero sometimes, when that person you love crosses the line, then the question will the same person still be worth loving? Kung mahal ka ng tao bakit pagtataksilan? Bakit ka lolokohin? Bakit ka sasaktan physically or emotionally? That's not love. So, to answer your question, 'No. I don't believe in unconditional love. (I don't believe there's such a thing as unconditional. We all have conditions. If it's unconditional, that means even if you're fooled, abused, robbed of money, or betrayed, you should still love. Unconditional love is not true. You can love, yes, but sometimes, when that person you love crosses the line, then the question is will the same person still be worth loving? If someone loves you, why would they betray you? Why would they fool you? Why would they hurt you physically or emotionally? That's not love)," said Lotlot.

Paolo said: "Naniniwala lang ako sa unconditional love ng magulang. Kahit yung mga anak nila na may ginawang masama, andyan pa rin ang mga magulang nila. When it comes to relationships, I agree with Ms Lotlot (De Leon) said. There's no such thing as unconditional love. There are always conditions. (I just believe in the unconditional love of parents. Even when their children do something bad, their parents are still there. When it comes to relationships, I agree with Ms Lotlot (De Leon) said. There's no such thing as unconditional love. There are always conditions.)

"In a relationship, I am willing to love someone. Sa pagmamahal, hindi naman ako naniningil so I will give love. Siguro bahala na si Lord kung paano ang magiging condition naman sa isa't isa. Kung mamahalin ba niya ako. Kung ako lang ang nagmamahal, loss ng tao yun hindi ako. (In a relationship, I am willing to love someone. In love, I don't charge anything so I will give love. Maybe the Lord will take care of how the conditions will be for each other if the person will love me. If I am the only one who loves, that is the person's loss, not mine)," Rico said.

Produced under BR (Brandon Ramirez) Productions, "Unconditional" is an LGBTQ-themed movie that tackles love and acceptance. It is directed by Adolf Alix Jr. and line-produced by Dennis Evangelista. Written by Jerry B. Gracio, the film will hit theaters soon.

What could happen to Earth in the future?

 

Our planet's incredible biodiversity is under threat. Deforestation, habitat destruction, and pollution are leading to the extinction of countless plant and animal species. Ecosystem Imbalance: The extinction of even a single species can disrupt an entire ecosystem.

Welcome to the future! An increasingly globalised humanity is faced with climate change, dwindling resources, overpopulation and technological upheaval. Diverging paths for humans and transhumans, eco-technic societies dominate the globe, and colonisation of space accelerates.

Mother Earth provides the plants, animals, birds, and fish who give their lives to feed and clothe human beings, while the trees, plants, and soil provide us with shelter, warmth, and a way to grow some of our foods. The insects ensure that our plants are pollinated and assist with their growth.

What is happening to Earth right now 2025? Earth is hurtling towards its average temperature rising by 1.5 °C above pre-industrial levels. One climate model suggests that the likelihood of reaching that threshold in 2023 is now 55%.

What happened to our Earth in 2025? Ultimately, the general strength of the solar maximum we experience in 2025 will determine just how harsh the solar weather is. It will therefore determine if we experience powerful solar flares or coronal mass ejections, which can then cause issues here on Earth, too.

Future changes are expected to include a warmer atmosphere, a warmer and more acidic ocean, higher sea levels, and larger changes in precipitation patterns. The extent of future climate change depends on what we do now to reduce greenhouse gas emissions. The more we emit, the larger future changes will be.

How can we save our Earth? Protecting our planet starts with simple things you can do to help protect the earth.

Reduce, reuse, and recycle. Cut down on what you throw away.  Volunteer for cleanups in your community.

Conserve water. Shop wisely. Use long-lasting light bulbs. Plant a tree.

Geologist Ed Mathez commented: " I wish I could tell you what the future will bring, but no one knows for sure how global warming will play out.

In fact, not knowing is one of the problems. Global warming is a significant risk to society. On the one hand, we do not know exactly what will happen. On the other hand, we realize that what could happen could be serious. And these consequences could affect different parts of the world in different ways.

For example, there could be long periods of low rainfall in a particular region. The western United States is one area that is at particular risk to widespread drought."

Humans' negative impact on the environment is nothing new. We have always refused to maintain a balance with nature.

We are responsible for the climate crisis we are facing.

I see climate change happening and I see it getting worse every time. This makes me wonder how the future is going to look for us. We have failed to realize that climate change directly impacts us and our basic rights like the right to food, clean air, clean water, education, development, etc. The temperature is rising, natural disasters just keep increasing in numbers, deforestation...

There is no us without mother nature. 

It's never too late!

 

“For what it’s worth: it’s never too late or, in my case, too early to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit, stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it.

The first phrase, “It’s never too late to be what you might have been,” means you can always work towards your dreams or improve yourself, no matter your age or past. It encourages hope and change.

“Never Too Late” is a song by Canadian rock band Three Days Grace. It was released on May 7, 2007 as the third single from the band’s second album One-X. “Never Too Late” is about not giving up. Adam Gontier stated, “I guess it’s like feeling like you’re at the end of your rope and deciding whether or not to completely give up or whether or not to try and sort of keep making it through another day.” 

I know a lot of pensioner expatriates living in the Philippines for good. Many of them have a big problem – after staying here for only a couple of months, they get bored. 

Having a vacation all day, all week, all month and all year long is really not an egg’s yellow. I must confess, I experienced the same in 1999 after moving to Davao City. At that time I just turned 46…

I remember my last days in an international publishing house in Berlin. I packed up my things after signing my resignation letter. Of course, I hadn’t reached my final pension age yet, but I got a lot of ideas on how to shape and organize my “new” life in the Philippines. I never forgot some office mates smiling at me:”We can’t cross such bridges before we come to them!” Of course guys, you have been right!

Anyway, age doesn’t matter – you can enjoy the second half of your life residing in the Philippines. As many of you know already: I stayed in many countries worldwide. I could have migrated to the U.S. I didn’t. I chose the Philippines. Most important thing is: Keep yourself busy.

Sure, there is always a time when we should rest and really enjoy life. Sure, we brought our savings and many of us enjoy the monthly pension in Euro or Dollar. Several weeks ago, I read a good idea in an U.S. business weekly: “Partner up with entrepreneurs who have long been in the business, or those who have just retired as well!” Worth to think about… .

Getting bored, means also for some to start grumbling and complaining about everything and everybody in the Philippines. I always keep my distance from such negative people. We are not here to change this country and its people. Why? What for? Filipinos are also not planning to change our home countries.

I really don’t have more stress than I had in my home country before. Critics reproach and accuse me of living a life as an expatriate while wearing pink tinted glasses. Sorry, but my conscience is very clear.

I keep myself busy, too busy sometimes: Teaching, translating, writing, before on the radio, and many more things; but I always find time for short vacations. It’s never too late. It’s your life! Take your chance and enjoy life in the Philippines. And, stay away from grumblers and grouses…

Life changes, and it’s never too late to change your life. Today is the perfect time to do something you have always wanted to do. The longer you wait, the harder it will be. It’s better to try and fail than never to try at all.

Did you know? Today marks the 3rd anniversary of the soft opening of the Davao City Coastal Bypass Road!

As one of Ulticon Builders Inc.'s flagship projects, this vital infrastructure has played a key role in improving mobility, easing traffic, and boosting economic growth in the region over the past three years.

This major project reflects our commitment to building a brighter and more connected future for the people of Davao and the entire Philippines. We’re proud to have contributed to such an impactful development, which has truly transformed the city’s landscape.

Here’s to many more years of progress and success!

#UlticonBuildersInc #UBI #DavaoCoastalBypass #PhilippinesInfrastructure #ConstructionPH #ProgressInAction #FlagshipProjects

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Miss Universe Asia 2024 Chelsea Manalo recognized as Alumna Achiever by De La Salle Araneta University

 

Jan Milo Severo - Philstar.com

January 28, 2025 | 4:24pm

MANILA, Philippines — Miss Universe Asia 2024 Chelsea Manalo was recognized by her alma mater as Gawad Lasallianeta 2025-Lasallians' Choice Award as well as with an Alumna Achiever award.

In her Instagram account, Chelsea shared photos of her recognition given at De La Salle Araneta University in Malabon. 

"Grateful and honored to receive not just one but two incredible recognitions!" she wrote. 

"Thank you, DLSAU Alumni Association, Inc., for recognizing me as an Alumna Achiever and for the Gawad Lasallianeta 2025-Lasallians’ Choice Award. These milestones inspire me to keep striving and representing our community with pride," she added. 

Last week, Chelsea was the special guest in GMA-7's "All-Out Sunday." She sang a song and dedicated it to her fans. 

She also visited Hope for Change organization last month. The organization envisions to eradicate the effects of hunger, illiteracy, and disease ravishing impoverished communities.

Chelsea is the first beauty queen to be crowned Miss Universe Asia. 

Miss Universe Philippines-Pasig conducts 2025 pageant preliminaries

FASHION AND BEAUTY

Earl D.C. Bracamonte - Philstar.com

January 30, 2025 | 9:24am

MANILA, Philippines — The Miss Universe Philippines (MUPH) Pasig organization, through its city director Cezarah Discaya and committee members Rochelle Romero and Ara Mina, oversaw the preliminary competition of its 2025 edition at the Atrium of Shangri-La Plaza Mall.

The 18 official delegates donned their Terno of choice, apart from wearing identical beachwear ensemble, plus a sponsor segment with the ladies wearing Smilee tees handpainted by a local Pasig artist.

"As a Pasigueña myself, I want to empower more Pasigueñas to reach for their dreams," encouraged MUPH National Director Shamcey Supsup-Lee. The architect-beauty queen also opened her Beauty Queen Philippines outlet store at the 5th level of the Shang Mall.

Hosted by Jasper Tiongson and Giana Llanes, with guest appearances from Miss Universe Asia 2024 Chelsea Manalo, Miss Supranational 2023 1st runner-up Pauline Amelinckx, and Miss Universe Philippines 2024 4th runner-up Christi Lynn McGarry, the delegates each received P20,000 at the close of the show.

The winner and her runners-up will receive P250,000, P125,000, P100,000, P75,000 and P50,000 cash prizes, in descending order.

The Miss Universe Philippines-Pasig 2025 coronation night will be held at the Metro Tent inside Metrowalk in Ortigas Center on January 31 at 7 p.m. 

Pinoys listen to music 126 minutes a day, longest globally Paul Icamina - The Philippine Star

 

The time spent by Filipinos listening to music, at an average of 126 minutes or a little over two hours a day, is the longest in the world. Iqbal Nuwir Anwar via Canva

Paul Icamina - The Philippine Star 

January 30, 2025 | 12:02am

MANILA, Philippines — Filipinos not only spend the most time on the internet and on social media, they listen to music the longest anywhere on the planet.

The time spent by Filipinos listening to music, at an average of 126 minutes or a little over two hours a day, is the longest in the world, according to a study conducted by the National Research Council of the Philippines (NRCP).

“Music is more than a means of entertainment – it is the people’s way to communicate feelings, resonate their stories and build on their emotions,” says Dr. Maria Alexandra Chua, a professor at the University of Sto. Tomas Conservatory of Music who leads NRCP’s Musika Pilipinas project.

And yet, as important as music is in these islands, more than half of Filipinos in the industry earn less than P20,000 a month, the NRCP study found.

The meager earnings are a little over the minimum wage in Metro Manila, says Chua, who is also with the UST Research Center for Culture, Arts and the Humanities.

This is reflected in the small share of music in creative revenues.

The gross value added of the country’s creative industry expanded from P1.61 trillion in 2022 to P1.72 trillion in 2023, according to the Philippine Statistics Authority. Music’s contribution is only P18.1 billion or 8.8 percent of the creative total.

The NRCP Musika Pilipinas project is designed to remedy this, defining the scope of the music ecosystem from publishing, recording and live music to the industry value chain. It will identify and assess market capital of music goods, particularly in the pivotal transformation to digital platforms, and determine growth prospects.

The NRCP study covered 700 industry players, and data was gathered from focus group discussions with artists, music company executives and organizations.

The study found that 61.1 percent of Filipinos involved in music creation, production, distribution and consumption were college degree holders; majority of them were freelance artists.

Most of the respondents said that to support their living expenses, they earned income not related to the music industry.

“Local artists would always have to go through what we normally identify as sariling sikap, that is, without any government intervention and support in music training, marketing and promotion,” says Chua.

Despite having the Philippine Creative Industries Development Act which promotes the development of Philippine creative industries, music is not a stand-alone sector in the creative industries council.

The music industry is subsumed under performing arts and audiovisuals, says Chua, who graduated at UST, magna cum laude, with a major in Piano.

There are problems of representation for music industry members in policy discussions, as well as in identifying music’s economic contribution as an important part of the Philippine creative economy, she points out.

A music coordinating council responsible for handling the dynamics, concerns, development and challenges faced by the industry is about time, recommends the NRCP study.

A centralized music coordinating council will handle the dynamics, concerns, strategic development plan and challenges faced by the industry, Chua says.

“The lack of effective protection of intellectual property rights of local artists is another crucial issue that needs to be addressed,” she says.

“The Philippine music industry should be understood as individuals, groups, institutions, companies and stakeholders who engage in the entire process of the creation, production, distribution and consumption of music within the Philippines,” Chua explains.

“To put it simply, they are creating, producing, reproducing, distributing or consuming music within the Philippines or producing music while representing the Philippines and from whose activities the Philippine economy benefits, including overseas Filipino musicians who send remittances,” Chua says.

We Live in Uncertain Times… But Haven’t We Always?

Uncertain Times are bad times. The phrase describes decades of the Cold War, the sudden crash of the housing market, years of a pandemic, and the nervous months before an election. When we’re happy, content, or confident, when ominous global powers fall, when the housing market turns around, when vaccines are developed, and when the officials are finally sworn in, the phrase falls out of fashion.

The phrase Certain Times, by contrast, almost never appears—yet that’s just what Uncertain Times implies: that while sometimes we do not know what will happen, others, we do. It’s comforting: If there is uncertainty, then there must be certainty.

Certainty, or uncertainty, is a matter of feeling, not fact. Of course, I know that Uncertain Times is just a shortcut to describe a general feeling of unease; no one is foolish enough to believe they know the future. Or maybe it’s like discombobulated, disgruntled, and disgusted, which seldom, if ever, appear without their prefixes.

But, rightly or wrongly, we do experience certainty. It would be impossible to go about our days if we didn’t: By seven o’clock the sun will be out, when I eat food it will give me energy, when I drink this tea it will not kill me. Certainty is relative. Certainty is also flimsy.

If you say that something is questionable, you mean that it is not completely honest, reasonable, or acceptable. This has been a challenging time for us all. Compare.thought-provoking... .

No,  I am not talking about political matters. Most of my fellow columnists are doing it already. More than enough. I'm talking about times of darkness. Times, where the whole world seems to be against you and me. No, I am not talking about corruption. That's already too much. That's what many people, who believe and trust in a new beginning, are talking about. 

Allow me to become very personal. I remember difficult, problematic and questionable times in my life and surroundings, where I almost lost all my strength to get down to work on those problems. Life's path became narrow. Fears grow: it's enough, it's enough! I am talking about personal matters. But, I also observe my people around me. We are all, yes, please count me in, we are all starting to become awkward and jerky. I am reluctant against the good ideas othes. I felt driven into a corner. Everything seems to have become a problem. Our voices bellow and our groans are becoming louder and louder. 

Creating the life you want and dealing with uncertainty is not an overnight event. It’s in the little things. It’s having a vision. It’s making it compelling. It’s seeing it and feeling it with absolute emotion. It’s caring about other people. It’s calling to say “I love you” for no reason. It’s about taking every opportunity to connect. To be playful. To honor and cherish your loved ones.

In my personal case, I suddenly experienced how God put me into life's "reconversion plant" and freshened me up: little but meaningful AND important cares suddenly happened. After a hot day and a refreshing thunderstorm we might be able to enjoy the following day and night. The person, who insulted us, apologized suddenly; the illness wiped out.

"You prepare a banquet for me, where all my enemies can see me!" (Psalm 23:5). I am glad. I really don't know about more and new spitefulness through my next "enemy on duty" in the near future. I don't even want to know it. I learned that negativism blocks life and its plans.  

Given just how common and recurrent uncertainty is, there are people ready to capitalize on it, and those ready to pay to be rid of it.

Op-ed writers, pundits, religious figures, scholars, consultants, influencers and hot-takers ready to prescribe remedies for all of your feelings of uncertainty: travel preparedness, political influence, literature, advice from football coaches, insurance, environmental sustainability, and self-acceptance. Their advice never seems to be that we should just get used to uncertainty.

Once we consulted oracles and soothsayers, then we looked to prophets and religious figures, we read tea leaves or Tarot cards. And no matter the epoch, we are prone to despots and demagogues ready to create certainty for us. Now we look for it in the big, nebulous sea of data. We implore statisticians to tell us who’s going to win an election or just the baseball game. We never seem to ask them how to just get used to not knowing.