In the years that followed, the music of my life became more and more the music of the Philippines. Maybe it was because of the first radio shows I presented. The music archive was full of Filipino music, but it was rarely broad-casted. I thought that was a shame.
This might not be the typical expat blog, written by a German expat, living in the Philippines since 1999. It's different. In English and in German. Check it out! Enjoy reading! Dies mag' nun wirklich nicht der typische Auswandererblog eines Deutschen auf den Philippinen sein. Er soll etwas anders sein. In Englisch und in Deutsch! Viel Spass beim Lesen!
You plan to move to the Philippines? Wollen Sie auf den Philippinen leben?
Ja, es gibt tonnenweise Webseiten, die Ihnen sagen wie, warum, vielleicht warum nicht und wann Sie am besten auf die Philippinen auswandern könnten. Ich möchte Ihnen in Zukunft "zwischen den Zeilen" einige zusätzlichen Dinge berichten und erzählen. Viel Spass beim Lesen und Gute Unterhaltung!
Thursday, October 21, 2021
The Music of my Life IV
How culturally different is The Philippines from the rest of Southeast Asia today?
Although the Philippines are primarily influenced by mainstream Asian culture, Filipinos proudly identify as unique from continental Asia's oppressive history. From not allowing Christian influences to enter until Spanish colonization to winning a bloody war against American colonization, Filipinos learned from their own mistakes and have an innate understanding of self-determination--something that often eludes other Southeast Asian countries. And with more than 100 distinct languages and almost 7000 local dialects, we're not limited to one set of cultural values any more than we are one language.
This is what most appeals to me about living here--the ability to experience national pride without feeling like I'm sacrificing my individuality or having my lifestyle decisions dictated by an oppressively narrow society."
Cruising in these tricky times
By Fr. Roy Cimagala *
IN the Gospel, there is a part where Christ laments about
people seemingly knowing a lot of things and yet failing to read the
signs of the times and, thus, failing to make proper judgments and
unprepared to meet our Creator. (cfr. Lk 12,54-59) “You know how to
interpret the appearance of the earth and the sky; why do you not know
how to interpret the present time?” he asked.
With this lamentation, Christ is actually asking us to learn
how to properly read the signs of the times or how things are going in
general, so that we can become men and women of good judgment and
direct ourselves to our proper end, which is none other than to be
with God in heaven for all eternity, as he wants us to be.
Obviously, to be able to properly read the signs of the
times is no easy task, especially these days. Given the multiplying
forces and influences that go into our current culture, reading the
signs of the times has become a formidable task that approaches the
level of a nightmare.
And precisely because of our complex, intricate and puzzling
world, this task has become more necessary. We need to stay away from
the grip of ignorance, confusion, error, the ingredients of perdition.
Still, not everything is lost and beyond hope. The amount of
information, given our ever-developing technologies, is not only
massive and profound but is also much easier to access now.
Besides, we are never lacking of people with great
potentials to effectively undertake this delicate task. We just need
to discover them and seek their help.
What we need at present is the discipline to have an abiding
concern to read the signs of the times. This is no simple thing, since
it’s not just a matter of attitude, habits and skills, though they
figure prominently in this task.
Yes, we need to learn how to collect data, compare notes,
dialogue with different parties, consult experts, study, reflect, make
conclusions and plan, etc., but all these are not enough.
Rather, this discipline in the end depends on our living
contact and relationship with what we consider as our God, what we
regard as our ultimate source of light and understanding.
Only then can we truly become men and women of sound
judgment. There is obviously a theoretical and practical side to this
affair. For one, we need to study the moral principles and the
doctrine of our faith as thoroughly as possible. We should aim at
nothing less than becoming masters and experts in this field, since
these principles and doctrine are indispensable. We should not have
second thoughts on this.
We have to realize that this study should be an ongoing and
continuing concern, ever deepening and refining our understanding of
these principles and doctrine, such that we can distinguish the
nuances and fine points, and that they become part of our mentality.
Together with study and meditation, we need to grow in the
virtues and to avail of the sacraments that keep us in the state of
grace. We should not be theoretical and intentional only. We have to
incarnate and express outwardly the things that we have learned in our
ongoing formation.
Let’s realize that we can only see, judge and know persons,
events and things properly when we have a vibrant interior or
spiritual life, a vital link not only with theories and principles,
but with God himself.
* Chaplain Center for Industrial Technology and Enterprise (CITE), Talamban, Cebu City
Email: roycimagala@gmail.com
Access to education in Brgy. Singapore now a reality
Barely after 30 days, Barangay Singapore’s call for a learning institution is finally answered.
On October 12, 2021, the provincial government of Davao de Oro officially turned over the One (1) unit, two (2) classroom buildings for the residents of the special barangay, making adequate access to education available for the community.
Putting up a school situated in higher ground was made possible through the coordination of PLGU-DdO with the Department of Education, Armed Forces of the Philippines, Philippine National Police, LGU-Mabini, provincial employees and other stakeholders who relentlessly partake in the bayanihan build.
The community’s geographical location does not impede the “Bayanihan Spirit’, wherein hinterlands province-wide were given access to education for inclusive growth. Without settling for the bare minimum, PLGU-DdO continues to provide access for other necessities of its people such as water systems, farm-to-market roads, community electrification and livelihoods.
“Pag-abot sa kalsada, ikaduha ang kuryente, aduna nay dakong kausaban dinhi sa among komunidad. Ang among mga katawhan madasig na ug magbalay na dinhi sa Singapore kay duna namay mga dagkong kausaban. Dako usab namong kalipay ug pasalamat sa gobyerno kay gipatukuran nami diri ug eskwelahan, diin dili na maglisod ang mga bata ug baba para lang maka eskwela.” said Brgy. Captain Mauricio Paican.
Special Barangay Singapore was once inhabited by communists’ group, prohibiting progress to flourish in the remote community for years, and now that insurgency province-wide have declined in great figures, residents in the community starts to benefit government interventions.
"Ang atuang pamaagi sa pagwala sa insurhensiya, dili pinaagi sa gyera, kundili pamaagi sa paghatag ug kaayuhan sa katawhan nga maoy mag protektar sa ilahang komunidad. Singapore is a very good example, kini usa ka komunidad nga nag-hugpong o nagtinabangay para sa kaugmaon sa kabataan nato dinhi.” said Governor Uy.
Furthermore, the provincial government plans to construct an access road from Mabugnao, Maragusan to Anitapan, Mabini which will open opportunities for tourism, direct delivery of produce from local farmers to markets, and will also ignite future developments for the benefit of the residents.
(Jasteen Abella, Information Division, Davao de Oro)
Wednesday, October 20, 2021
WORDS
Words can hurt. Words are powerful. They can make or break a person. Whispering words of wisdom can empower, encourage, uplift and help move someone forward. Choose kind words to heal one's spirit.
Face it again: your words can hurt someone more than you intended too and therefore it is important that you take a moment to think before you speak, no matter your mood. Words are expensive; once they are said they cannot be taken back. Choose your words wisely or else it can become costly to you. Don't wonder. There is a reason, I repeat my words here.
There comes a point where it all becomes too much. When we get too tired to fight anymore. So we give up. That's when the real work begins....!
True words may be bitter. But no matter what words say. Actions always reveal the truth.
Your words must match your actions in this world. What you put out is what you'll receive. Only you know if your words match you, the real you. Not what any version you want the world to see, but the acts you do when no one is watching you. That's living an authentic life.
Words won't always work. So always express your feelings more in action than words. Words fade. Memories linger.
Our words are very powerful, always make sure that you use the right words, which encourages people instead of discouraging.
Well, sometimes words are really not enough. You can believe all the right things, yet still be dead wrong.
Where there is life, there is motion. Some antelopes, as well as the cheetah, can spring faster than speeding cars. Bighorn sheep, charging one another headfirst, collide with such force that the sound echoes like a gunshot through mountain ranges. Migrating birds battle winds for 1,000 Miles, nonstop, before dropping back to earth.
Sometimes, we keep relics of life: a fragile,perfect seashell, an exoctiv butterfly mounted on a pin. But these are mere memories: life has gone from them, and with it motion.
Someone around us has left us and the world. We are shocked. We can't find the right words.
Some close to us have an incurable disease. We can't find the right words.
Someone with us tells us, he or she is happily married. We can't find the right words.
Someone got an amazing job abroad, we really can't find the right words.
Well, is there something wrong with us?
Authors of the bible often look to nature for analogies to express spiritual truth. The book of James, controversial because of its emphasis on "good work", is perhaps best understood through the analogy of motion, in the spiritual realm also, where there's life there will be a motion.
Movement does not cause life, but it does invariably follow life. It's a sure sign that life is present. . Similarly, genuine faith in Christ should always result in actions that demonstrate the faith.
Straight to the point: be humble.
The forcefulness of love
By Fr. Roy Cimagala *
IT’S true! Where there is love, there is also some kind of
forcefulness, an abiding state of being driven despite the variations
of our bodily and other earthly conditions. Where there is love, we
can only echo what Christ himself said: “I have come to set the earth
on fire, and how I wish it were already blazing!” (Lk 12,49)
Where there is love, we would be clear about what the real
and ultimate purpose of our life is, we would have a good sense of
direction even if we are presented with many alternative options, we
would not mind the many difficulties and challenges we can encounter
as we go along. In fact, we would find great meaning in them.
This is the ideal condition for all of us. Even if we are
endowed only with the most phlegmatic and melancholic temperaments,
something must be burning inside our heart that cannot help but burst
into a flame, a flame of love, of self-giving, of serving without
expecting any return, without counting the cost. If it is not yet
there, then let’s enkindle it.
The secret is always that vital identification with Christ.
Of course, this condition, this requirement is quite tough to meet,
but if we would just try and try again as often as necessary,
certainly the ideal effect would just come about. On the part of
Christ, we cannot doubt that he is all there for us, all there for the
taking.
What can always help is that we avoid getting imprisoned in
our own world and allow ourselves to simply be at the mercy of the
state of our physical, emotional and mental condition. With our
spiritual faculties of intelligence and will, plus of course God’s
grace that will always be made abundantly available, we can transcend
beyond these constraining elements.
So we just have to use everything within our power to attain
that ideal state of being always on the go, dynamic, eager to serve
and to do things for everyone. We may have our limitations, and we can
commit mistakes, yet we cannot deny that everything is already given
for us to be how we should be in our earthly life. And that is to be
like Christ, whose only desire is to love all of us.
We actually cannot avoid using some forcefulness. Even with
our own selves, we have to use it, because if not then we would be
totally dominated by our laziness, softness, fears, doubts. Right at
the start of the day, when we have to get up, we have to use force,
and that little daily task can require heroic efforts, both mental and
physical.
It´s true that as we age, our physical strength can wane,
but not the power of the mind nor of the will. In these latter two
faculties, which are our spiritual powers, there´s no such thing as
aging, unless we entirely submit them to the law of our physical life.
Especially with the grace of God, they can go on gaining strength,
scope and depth.
So in theory, because of our spiritual nature, we can go on
living and loving. This is the natural basis for our immortality, that
capacity to continue living even after our death. But since we are a
unity of body and soul, of something material and spiritual, we always
experience a certain tension within ourselves which we try to bear by
using some forcefulness.
But when we have true love, we can handle that predicament
well. Love has its inherent forcefulness.
* Chaplain Center for Industrial Technology and Enterprise (CITE), Talamban, Cebu City
Email: roycimagala@gmail.com
ALONE?
Studies show the ability to tolerate alone time has been linked to increased happiness, better life satisfaction, and improved stress management. People who enjoy alone time experience less depression.
Short-term tips to get you started to avoid comparing yourself to others are easy to be said:
Take a step back from social media. …
Take a phone break. …
Carve out time to let your mind wander. …
Take yourself on a date. …
Get physical. …
Spend time with nature. …
Lean into the perks of being alone.
I can be a reluctant socializer. I’m sometimes secretly pleased when social plans are called off. I get restless a few hours into a hangout. Maybe, I’ll not be invited any more. Or not so often… . I even once went on a free 10-day silent meditation retreat – not for the meditation, but for the silence.
So I can relate to author Anneli Rufus, who recounted in Party of One: The Loners’ Manifesto: “When parents on TV shows punished their kids by ordering them to go to their rooms, I was confused. I loved my room. Being there behind a locked door was a treat. To me a punishment was being ordered to play Yahtzee with my cousin Louis.”
Several years ago in one of my write-ups, I wrote about loneliness or in other words splendid isolation.
Asocial tendencies like these are often far from ideal. Abundant research shows the harms of social isolation, considered a serious public health problem in countries that have rapidly ageing populations (though talk of a ‘loneliness epidemic’ may be overblown). In the UK, the Royal College of General Practitioners says that loneliness has the same risk level for premature death as diabetes. Strong social connections are important for cognitive functioning, motor function and a smoothly running immune system.
This is especially clear from cases of extreme social isolation. Examples of people kept in captivity, children kept isolated in abusive orphanages, and prisoners kept in solitary confinement all show how prolonged solitude can lead to hallucinations and other forms of mental instability.
But these are severe and involuntary cases of loneliness. For those of us who just prefer plenty of alone time, emerging research suggests some good news: there are upsides to being reclusive – for both our work lives and our emotional well-being.
Social anxiety is the single most common psychological problem according to innumerable survey results worldwide. The magnificent, gorgeous and excellent isolation, resulting from being nervous when meeting people is really the opposite. The state of being isolated reminds me of being in a hospital with an infectious disease.
Does the project of giving a speech or going to a social gathering give you the willies?
Relax, there are always ways and solutions to help you but teaching you “never to be nervous again”.
I have always been the most silent pupil in elementary and high school. I was ashamed even to talk to or with my teachers. Several terrible school records have been the result. But, I wanted to become a journalist. I am still one.
During college times and while writing my first articles, I learned from my first boss, a daily news publisher, to avoid being nervous while meeting people. I was always prepared. Preparation for any communicating situation is a must. I have been invited to many parties and gatherings. I always asked for the guest list. I scanned all the newspapers and browsed the net.
One key benefit is improved creativity. Gregory Feist, who focuses on the psychology of creativity at California’s San Jose State University, has defined creativity as thinking or activity with two key elements: originality and usefulness. He has found that personality traits commonly associated with creativity are openness (receptiveness to new thoughts and experiences), self-efficacy (confidence), and autonomy (independence) – which may include “a lack of concern for social norms” and “a preference for being alone”. In fact, Feist’s research on both artists and scientists shows that one of the most prominent features of creative folks is their lesser interest in socializing.
One reason for this is that such people are likely to spend sustained time alone working on their craft. Plus, Feist says, many artists “are trying to make sense of their internal world and a lot of internal personal experiences that they’re trying to give expression to and meaning to through their art.” Solitude allows for the reflection and observation necessary for that creative process.
A recent vindication of these ideas came from University at Buffalo psychologist Julie Bowker, who researches social withdrawal. Social withdrawal usually is categorized into three types: shyness caused by fear or anxiety; avoidance, from a dislike of socializing; and insociability, from a preference for solitude.
There is gender and cultural variation, of course. For instance, some research suggests that unsociable children in China have more interpersonal and academic problems than unsociable kids in the West. Bowker says that these differences are narrowing as the world becomes more globalized.
Still, it turns out that solitude is important for more than creativity. Since ancient times, meanwhile, people have been aware of a link between isolation and mental focus. After all, cultures with traditions of religious hermits believe that solitude is important for enlightenment.
Recent research has given us a better understanding of why. One benefit of unsociability is the brain’s state of active mental rest, which goes hand-in-hand with the stillness of being alone. When another person is present, your brain can’t help but pay some attention. This can be a positive distraction. But it’s still a distraction.
Daydreaming in the absence of such distractions activates the brain’s default-mode network. Among other functions, this network helps to consolidate memory and understand others’ emotions. Giving free rein to a wandering mind not only helps with focus in the long term but strengthens your sense of both yourself and others. Paradoxically, therefore, periods of solitude actually help when it comes time to socialize once more. And the occasional absence of focus ultimately helps concentration in the long run.
I learned, if your personality tends toward insociability, you shouldn’t feel the need to change. Of course, that comes with caveats. But as long as you have regular social contact, you are choosing solitude rather than being forced into it, you have at least a few good friends and your solitude is good for your well-being or productivity, there’s no point agonizing over how to fit a square personality into a round hole.
So feel free to de-clutter your social calendar. It’s psychologist-approved.
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Tuesday, October 19, 2021
Our accountability of our stewardship
By Fr. Roy Cimagala *
WE should be profoundly aware of our accountability of our
stewardship of the many things God has given us. We have to do
everything to keep that awareness active and functional, supported by
the appropriate means that first of all are spiritual in nature before
they are material.
We are reminded of this duty when in the gospel Christ said,
“Be sure of this: if the master of the house had known the hour when
the thief was coming, he would not have let his house be broken into.
You also must be prepared, for at an hour you do not expect, the Son
of Man will come.” (Lk 12,39-40)
Since God has made us stewards of our own life, we need to
learn how to manage the many resources entrusted to us so that we can
be fruitful and productive in this life. Let’s remember that God will
always ask us to account for what he has given us.
We have to be really good in managing our life, being clear
about the proper motives, priorities and standards, especially in the
use of our time. The motives should be none other than love of God and
others. The priorities should always be God first, then others, then
ourselves.
And the standards should be such that at the end of the day
we can ‘harvest’ a good crop that at bottom is a matter of growth in
sanctity and apostolic zeal. We should be clever enough that we do not
get too entangled with the technicalities involved in the pursuit of
our earthly and temporal concerns, though they have their objective
value.
In this regard, I suppose having daily plans and strategies
would greatly help us. We always need some structure to guide us and
facilitate things. This way we minimize getting distracted along the
way.
For this, we have to sharpen our sense of accountability.
Yes, we should all have an abiding concern for accounting everything
that we are and that we have. We just cannot go on with our life as if
we are not answerable to anybody, especially to God, from whom we all
come and to whom we all belong.
This is an indispensable part of our life, an
unrelinquishable duty to perform. Our problem is that many still are
ignorant of this duty, and of those who already know about this, the
tendency is to take it for granted or to do it badly or to avoid it if
given the chance.
We need to find a way of instilling this duty in everyone,
starting with oneself and then encouraging others to do the same, in
the context of the families, schools, parishes, offices, etc.
We always have to remember that what we are and what we have
are not self-generated but are always given to us one way or another,
if not by someone or by some other institution and authority, then by
God ultimately.
Yes, we are always answerable to some people in varying ways
and degrees. These people can be our parents, teachers, friends,
neighbors, public officials, etc. In the end, we are all answerable to
God who has given us everything, starting with our life and all the
endowments that go with our life.
We need to smash the thought that what we are and what we
have are just our own. That is a thinking that is completely false,
that stands on no objective foundation. It needs to be corrected
drastically and urgently.
* Chaplain Center for Industrial Technology and Enterprise (CITE), Talamban, Cebu City
Email: roycimagala@gmail.com
Monday, October 18, 2021
Always ready to meet Christ
By Fr. Roy Cimagala *
“BE like servants who await their master’s return from a
wedding, ready to open immediately when he comes and knocks.” (Lk
12,36)
With these words, it is quite clear that we need to be
always ready for our meeting with our Creator who can actually call us
anytime. We came from him and we are supposed to go back to him who
wants us to be his image and likeness and sharers of his divine life.
We should never be distracted, much less, forget the real
and ultimate purpose of our life. We are here on earth still being
created and redeemed by God, and we have to do our part in that divine
project. We are here on earth to be trained to be what God wants us to
be, as well as to be tested whether what he wants us to be is also
what we would want to be.
Thus, we need to be vigilant always, both in good times and
in bad times, and most especially in ordinary times which we still
would not know whether it is good or bad. We should never let our
guard down.
This is simply because we have enemies to contend with all
the time. First of all, it is our own selves, our own weakened flesh
that will always lure us to do things against God’s will and against
what is truly good for us.
Then we have the world with all its sinful attractions and
temptations. And, of course, the devil himself. Never discount him.
He’s always around, prowling like a lion looking for someone to
devour. (cfr 1 Pt 5,8)
In what may seem to be good times, when things are more or
less ok, let us thank God and do our best to make use of all the
blessings and good opportunities made available for us.
But let’s not forget that the good things can also occasion
dangers for us if we are not careful. We should know where those
dangers lie in the good things that we may enjoy at the moment. In
that way, we avoid falling into complacency that will practically
spoil us, and take away the goodness of the blessings we are enjoying.
And in what may seem to be bad times, let us never forget to
look for the one good thing in those situations. There will always be
one or two or even more good things on these occasions and turn them
into the vehicles for redemption.
This can happen if we turn to God in the first place. He
will always forgive us and He knows what to do with whatever mess we
make. In that way, we avoid falling into sadness and bitterness, and
can remain calm and hopeful in spite of the suffering and pain we may
be undergoing at the moment.
We really need to upgrade our vigilance skills especially
these days when we are living in an increasingly complex world. We
should not take this need for granted. Remember Christ telling his
disciples: “Beware that your hearts do not become drowsy from
carousing and drunkenness and the anxieties of daily life…Be vigilant
at all times.” (Lk 21,34.36)
Let us strengthen our hope that is firmly anchored on our
faith and trust in the ever-wise and omnipotent providence of God. We
should remember that it was God who started everything and it will
also be he who will end, complete and perfect everything. Ours is
simply to go along with him.
* Chaplain Center for Industrial Technology and Enterprise (CITE), Talamban, Cebu City
Email: roycimagala@gmail.com
Saturday, October 16, 2021
From abandonment to apostolic zeal
By Fr. Roy Cimagala *
IT’S intriguing to note that when Christ sent out his
disciples in pairs to prepare his coming to the different towns, he
commanded them to “carry no money bag, no sack, no sandals, and to
greet no one along the way.” (cfr. Lk 10,1-9) He is actually telling
them not to worry so much about these items because in the end he will
take care of them.
Such words of Christ can only remind us that we should
always be trusting of the ever powerful and merciful providence of God
who governs all of his creation with absolute effectiveness no matter
how much we mess up things.
Yes, we may experience some privations, some losses, etc.,
in our life, but if we stick with God, we know that everything will
always work out for the good. (cfr. Rom 8,28)
With all the things that we have to contend with in this
life, we certainly need to have a healthy sense of trust in God’s
loving and wise providence, abandoning ourselves in his will and ways
that often are mysterious to us and can appear to be contrary to what
we would like to have.
A healthy spirit of abandonment in God’s hands is necessary
even as we exhaust all possible human means to achieve our goals or
simply to tackle all the challenges, trials and predicaments of our
life. We should never forget this truth of our faith.
In this life, we need to acquire a good, healthy sporting
spirit, because life is actually like a game. Yes, life is like a
game. We set out to pursue a goal, we have to follow certain rules, we
are given some means, tools and instruments, we are primed to win and
we do our best, but losses can come, and yet, we just have to move on.
Woe to us when we get stuck with our defeats and failures,
developing a loser’s mentality. That would be the epic fail that puts
a period and a finis in a hanging narrative, when a comma, a colon or
semi-colon would have sufficed.
We need a sporting spirit because life’s true failure can
come only when we choose not to have hope. That happens when our
vision and understanding of things is narrow and limited, confined
only to the here and now and ignorant of the transcendent reality of
the spiritual and supernatural world.
It’s only when we are properly detached from the things of
this world and trust in the powerful providence of God that we can
develop the ideal apostolic zeal. To develop our zealous apostolic
concern surely entails sacrifice. We should not be surprised if in
pursuing it we are challenged, faced with difficulties and asked to do
self-denials and other forms of sacrifice.
We just have to hold firm on our Christian conviction,
together with the continuing petition for God’s grace and the generous
discharge of our human effort, that to do apostolate is the will of
God. He is bent in accomplishing it. It’s his first concern to contend
with the difficulties. Ours is simply to cooperate.
We have to continually ask ourselves if our thoughts and
desires bear an eminently apostolic character. If not, let’s
immediately do the necessary adjustments and corrections.
We have to embark also on a life-long effort to acquire
apostolic skills—how to make friends and deepen that friendship, how
to pursue full blast the supernatural apostolic goal of our life while
respecting our natural conditions, etc.
* Chaplain Center for Industrial Technology and Enterprise (CITE), Talamban, Cebu City
Email: roycimagala@gmail.com