
This might not be the typical expat blog, written by a German expat, living in the Philippines since 1999. It's different. In English and in German. Check it out! Enjoy reading! Dies mag' nun wirklich nicht der typische Auswandererblog eines Deutschen auf den Philippinen sein. Er soll etwas anders sein. In Englisch und in Deutsch! Viel Spass beim Lesen!


Eula Bautista, a grand finalist at the Tanghalan ng Kampeon segment on 'TictoClock' on GMA Network, fainted in the middle of her performance on March 10.

"Eula Bautista fainted in the middle of her back-to-back tapatan performance against Princess Palti. There was an emergency in the studio. Eula Bautista fainted. We had to take a commercial break, so our medical personnel could attend to Eula," said Kuya Kim Atienza during the show. "Right now, the medical team is observing Eula's condition."

Judge Renz Verano added, "Our priority is Eula's health. We're hoping and praying that she's okay. This is the first time this has happened, so we are a little shocked."
Eula was performing "Better Days" when she fainted. Renz urged viewers to pray for her.
"Whatever the judges decide, we will let you know tomorrow. We will give you an update on Eula's condition. For now, let's join in praying that Eula is safe and that nothing serious happened to her. Let's all be careful," Renz added.
Later, in a report by GMA News Online, "TiktoClock" program manager Charles Koo said Eula is fine now.
"We had a medic with us, and we assessed her medical condition. Eula had herself checked," Charles said. "Her oxygen rate was at 100 percent, her heart rate was normal, but her breath rate was a little high at 18 breaths per minute."
When Eula complained of a numbing upper lip, the medic said it must be anxiety. "So we put her on oxygen, sat her in a wheelchair, and relocated her to the dressing room, where she could rest and for further check."
Gov’t arranges chartered flights for OFWs, warns against hoarders, profiteers | ||
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In a statement, Communications Undersecretary Claire Castro said that chartered flights are now being arranged to transport Filipinos from Saudi Arabia and the United Arab Emirates, with the earliest flight departing on March 14. Read more | ||
In a related development, AGIMAT Party-list Rep. Bryan Revilla is calling for a whole-of-government response to the Middle East crisis in a bid to protect the safety and welfare of the estimated 2.4 million overseas Filipino workers in the region. Read more | ||
Meanwhile, Malacañang warned that hoarders and profiteers taking advantage of the expected oil supply disruption caused by the conflict in the Middle East will face consequences of their actions. Read more |
Local shipping lines have resorted to trimming their daily trips and increasing passenger fares to cope with spiking fuel costs, affecting Filipinos planning to travel during the Holy Week. https://tinyurl.com/bddtvpv8 | via ONE News
Arguably, if you live your life out of the love of wisdom, both in thought and action and desire or emotion (‘love’ being a desire or emotion), you are living a philosophical life even if you have never heard of the term ‘philosophy’ or attended any course in philosophy.
To lead a philosophical life is to live a life devoted to reason—to live in accordance with one’s own deep and comprehensive understanding of how one’s life can be most fully lived. This is not about accepting a text or set of principles as authoritative. One must be committed to one’s own process of reasoning following arguments wherever they lead and implementing them. This is the existential commitment entailed by philosophy as a way of life.
Philosophy is an activity of thought, a type of thinking. Philosophy is critical and comprehensive thought, the most critical and comprehensive manner of thinking which the human species has yet devised. This intellectual process includes both an analytic and synthetic mode of operation.
Socrates famously said that the un-examined life is not worth living. Clearly, that’s an exaggeration. Nevertheless, some philosophers have argued that if we don’t pay attention to why we live in a certain way rather than any other, we risk “misliving” our only life, getting to the end of it, on our proverbial death bed, and thinking: “shoot, I wasted it!” Or, as Tolstoy’s Ivan Ilych puts it: “Maybe I did not live as I ought to have done… But how could that be, when I did everything properly?”
We all need personal philosophy in life or we risk wandering, and responding to random stimuli and information with little or no impact on our long-term goals.
A philosophy of life is an overall vision or attitude towards life and the purpose of it.Human activities are limited by time, and death but we forget this.We fill up our time with distractions, never asking whether they are important, whether we really find them of value.Without a personal philosophy, we end up living without direction.
Remember that it’s less important how fast you’re traveling, and more important to be headed the right way. The surest way to get where you want to go is to travel in the right direction.
People who have made genuine changes in their lives and managed to attain difficult goals are not stronger, more intelligent or fearless than you. The only difference is the decision to act in the direction of their dreams.
Successful people have a definite sense of direction. They have a clear understanding of what success means to them. Everything they do is consistent with their goals. They look forward and decide where they want to be. Their day to day actions help them move closer to their vision.
Once you find your WHY, you will be more careful and selective about your daily actions. Almost facing the age of 73 , I learned most of all these things from my Philippine family living here as expatriate for almost 28 years.
We’re not sensual because life is perfect but because we want to turn each day into a special occasion. It is easier to dream about a perfect life. But it is not easy to make a perfect one. Perfect life doesn’t exist.
Rochel Fortajada
Lola Lily and Lola Pong were not just “mag-balae” (in-laws). They were soulmates. They met late in their lives after their children got married, yet they quickly became inseparable—a friendship that went beyond words, years, seasons.
Both of them held a special place in my heart. At every family gathering, it was always my task to care for them: to make sure they were comfortable, serve their food, and take their picture for Lola Lily’s album. I never considered it a chore; it was a privilege to see their love, laughter, and care for each other.
No conversation ever ended without one of them saying, “Basta magdasal lang tayo palagi, Mare (Let’s always pray, sister),” and the other replying, “Kasali ka parati sa mga panalangin ko (You are always included in my prayers).”
Their friendship was remarkable. Being around them, I was deeply moved by how their hands, gray hairs, and gentle lines told the story of a lifetime of sacrifices for their family. Their hands, worn from years of care, spoke of endless devotion. Their gray hairs were a testament to wisdom, prayers, and love poured into everyone around them.
In 2020, Lola Lily had a stroke that paralyzed almost her entire body. Her cardiovascular disease made recovery difficult, yet she held on to hope because of her faith in God.
Then, in August 2022, Lola Pong passed away from stage 4 cancer, just three months after learning of her illness. Even in her fragile state, she thought of others and did not want to burden her family. On my last visit before she died, as I told her I would be heading home, she whispered, “Naniniwala talaga ako na walang imposible sa dasal. Sabihan mo si Mare na kung hindi man ako mabigyan ng himala ng Diyos, sa langit na lang kami magbonding ha (I really believe nothing is impossible with prayers. Please tell Lily that if God does not grant me a miracle, we will just bond in heaven).”
I cried but tried to remain composed.
Her last words revealed the essence of surrender. She prayed with all her heart, hoped without fear, and trusted God completely. Her faith allowed her to let go, trusting that God’s plan was perfect.
In her final moments, she showed me that prayer, love, and surrender are inseparable, and that faith can hold both longing and peace at once.
We never informed Lola Lily about Lola Pong’s death. But on the day Lola Pong passed, I was changing Lola Lily’s clothes when a butterfly came into the room. I had never been a believer in superstitions, yet I was certain that no butterfly had ever entered Lola’s room except that night.
Looking at it gently flying above her, Lola Lily said, “Paru-paro, may balita. May bisita (Butterfly, there’s news. There’s a visitor).”
In September 2022, just a month after Lola Pong’s passing, Lola Lily also passed away, as if their hearts could not be separated even in death. I remember her on her deathbed, staring at the ceiling, softly uttering the word “Mare.”
I can’t help but wonder if it is true that when we leave this world, the people who mattered most to us, who have already passed, are there to meet us. And perhaps, for Lola Lily, it was Lola Pong.
Both of them have now passed, leaving behind a legacy of love, faith, and an extraordinary friendship that touched everyone around them.
Their lives remind me that friendship is a treasure at any age. Time is fleeting, life is fragile, and no amount of moments with loved ones will ever feel enough, but every single one matters.
I am inspired by their strength, endurance, and above all, their unwavering faith in God. Life is not measured by comfort but by how we endure, how we hold on, and how faith and prayer guide us through every trial. Prayer and faith are lifelines that give hope when the path feels uncertain, courage when life feels heavy, and peace in surrendering to God’s plan.
Their story will always remind me to cherish the people I love, to pray for them sincerely, and to live with a heart full of faith, hope, and gratitude for every fleeting moment we are given.
They showed me that the greatest legacy we leave is love freely given, prayers sincerely offered, and friendships cherished deeply. Their lives remind us that true strength is not in wealth or comfort, but in devotion, faith, and care for others.
Even in their passing, their love and friendship continue to guide and inspire everyone fortunate enough to know them.
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