“There is beauty in turning pain into power,” actress Kaila Estrada shared when Lifestyle asked her about Max Alvero, her character in the action-drama TV series “Incognito” and the latter’s struggle with grief and healing.

Estrada plays a hacker and cyber-ops specialist discharged from the military for insubordination and desertion during an operation. That same mission took the life of her fiancé, a fellow soldier, leaving Max in deep, unresolved grief.

“Max isn’t your typical female lead. She’s complex and still very much in mourning,” Estrada explained. When asked how she was able to find a personal connection with her character, she said, “We’ve all experienced grief in our lives. Maybe I didn’t experience it exactly like Max did, but I definitely know what loss feels like. That made Max’s struggles feel painfully real to me.”