
This might not be the typical expat blog, written by a German expat, living in the Philippines since 1999. It's different. In English and in German. Check it out! Enjoy reading! Dies mag' nun wirklich nicht der typische Auswandererblog eines Deutschen auf den Philippinen sein. Er soll etwas anders sein. In Englisch und in Deutsch! Viel Spass beim Lesen!



“Every man for himself” (or “each for themselves”) describes a chaotic situation where individuals, in a crisis or competition, act only in their own self-interest without helping others. This idiom highlights a total lack of cooperation, forcing everyone to rely entirely on their own survival skills
It’s used for saying that everyone needs to look after themselves and not worry about anyone else. Everyone looks out for his or her best interest. Originally this phrase expressed approval. It appeared in Chaucer’s The Knight’s Tale (“Ech man for him-self, ther is non other”), implying that if one did not look out for oneself no one else would.
Yes, each person does what is best for himself or herself. Yes, times are getting tougher. I think you, my dear readers, know what I am talking about. No reason to list everything again. Sometimes, there is no team spirit in this office; it’s definitely every man for himself. Neighbors would tell each other: mind your own business. The tone between us humans is becoming more and more harsher.
Some people live alone because friends and families have abandoned them. Important helpline is Psalm 27:10 for them. “When my father and my mother forsake me, then the LORD will take care of me.”
And solitary survivors like Robinson Crusoe, or the hero in the movie Castaway, fascinate. But the loner is someone who purposely holds himself aloof, like the Unabomber, Mathematician Ted Kaczynski. People doggedly moving ever farther away from one another constitute hell in C.S. Lewis’ book, The Great Divorce.
Fact is – Proverbs 18:1 says: A man who isolates himself seeks his own desires; he rages against all wise judgment.
Living in community and helping one another is foundational for all who wish to follow Christ. We know from Acts 2 that the early church took this seriously, seeing many examples of believers helping one another, including materially, so that there would be no one in need within their group.
Much has been written about the benefits of strong relationships. I wrote about it at this corner several years ago. People are healthier, live longer, and are generally happier if they have strong friendships beneficial for helping and encouraging each other. And let me repeat it – especially during these tough times.


The K-pop industry ended 2025 with the news that Danielle would be leaving NewJeans and Ador after a year-long dispute between the group and Hybe’s sublabel. Fast forward to April 2026, and more members of globally recognized idol groups have been announcing their departures.
Mid-March saw Enhypen part ways with Heeseung, and Zerobaseone split in half as members Zhang Hao, Ricky, Kim Gyuvin, and Han Yujin left the group to prepare for a redebut under home agency YH Entertainment. And right at the start of this month, SM Entertainment announced that Mark Lee would no longer be part of NCT, NCT 127, and NCT Dream—as his contract with the label came to an end. Fellow NCT/WayV member Ten also recently announced that he will no longer renew his exclusive contract with SM Entertainment but will remain in his groups.
Speculations have also arisen that Katseye’s Manon would be leaving her group after Hybe and Geffen announced that she would be going on hiatus. It’s noted that the Swiss Ghanaian member did not perform with the global girl group for their Coachella set.
1. Wake up early and always see the beautiful rising sun.
2. Meditate to enjoy the essence of enjoying the present.
3. Don't overthink about the future. Everything happens for a reason.
4. Never fear, because there is nothing to fear.
5. Visualize your dream lifestyle every day.
6. Strongly believe you will live that lifestyle for sure.
7. Listen more and speak less.
8. The pain and worry you are facing now will fade away.
9. Be you. Live by your values.
10. Never expect anything. It's the gateway for a happy life.
11. Be bold to stay alone.
12. Always set your heart on the divine.


Ralph Edwin Villanueva - Philstar.com

MANILA, Philippines — On to the next.
Alex Eala and Zeynep Sonmez are off to the second round of the Mutua Madrid Open doubles’ action after sweeping the pair of Hao-ching Chan and Fanny Stollar, 6-2, 6-2, Thursday afternoon (Manila time) in Spain.
The Filipino-Turkish pair had a slow start, trailing 0-2 in the first set.
But they strung together game after game, taking the first set 6-2.
They continued on in the second set, going up 4-0, before Chan and Stollar held their serve and finally put themselves on the board, 1-4.
Eala and Sonmez, though, held their serve, pushing themselves to the match point, 5-1.
But Chan and Stollar kept themselves afloat with a crucial win in the seventh game, 2-5.
The Filipina and Turkish tennisters, however, iced the match as they won the rally.
Eala and Sonmez will face either the pair of Lyudmyla Kichenok and Desirae Kwarczyk, or the second-seeded team of Katerina Siniakova and Taylor Townsend.
The Filipina also barged into the next round of singles’ play after demolishing Anastasia Pavlyuchenkova in the first round. In the Round of 64, she will face Elise Mertens, who had a first-round bye.