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This might not be the typical expat blog, written by a German expat, living in the Philippines since 1999. It's different. In English and in German. Check it out! Enjoy reading! Dies mag' nun wirklich nicht der typische Auswandererblog eines Deutschen auf den Philippinen sein. Er soll etwas anders sein. In Englisch und in Deutsch! Viel Spass beim Lesen!
You plan to move to the Philippines? Wollen Sie auf den Philippinen leben?
Ja, es gibt tonnenweise Webseiten, die Ihnen sagen wie, warum, vielleicht warum nicht und wann Sie am besten auf die Philippinen auswandern könnten. Ich möchte Ihnen in Zukunft "zwischen den Zeilen" einige zusätzlichen Dinge berichten und erzählen. Viel Spass beim Lesen und Gute Unterhaltung!
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Thursday, July 9, 2026
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The dangers of violent video games and child abuse
By Fr. Shay Cullen, Founder since 1974
The habit of millions of Filipinos to play violent video games online could have long-term consequences for their mental condition, especially that of young people. Some experts say it is very likely that such games can cause emotional and psychological problems, while others disagree, claiming there are no negative effects. But research from the American Psychological Association shows that long-term exposure to violent video games can desensitize players, especially minors. They can lose their capacity for empathy and become disconnected from their families and friends.
Minors who play high-risk, mature games online have been found to be depressed, unable to sleep well, and earn low grades in school. They can be prone to aggression and bullying others, among other negative effects. The young suspects in the deadly Tacloban school shooting on June 22 were addicted to playing the shockingly violent “GoreBox” video game. Others like it include “Call of Duty” and “Free Fire.” This writer tried to play “Call of Duty” and found that the “duty” involved shooting and stabbing other players dead. It was a traumatic experience, even though it was a virtual game.
All these and more can tell us that games that have players shooting or stabbing people dead are not offering good experiences for anybody, most of all children, and can cause mental health problems. The true “call to duty” for all adults, especially parents, is to protect children from all possible harm and promote well-being, kindness, respect for life, care and understanding for the vulnerable, and compassion and love for others. These are basic Gospel values taught by Jesus of Nazareth. To be a true Christian is to embrace love of neighbor and reject violence of all kinds, including those in video games. There are many alternatives to such games: positive, value-enhancing, character-building video games that teach generosity, kindness and care for others. These games are good for both adults and children: “Until Then,” “Ugaling Pinoy,” “Alba: A Wildlife Adventure,” “Sky: Children of Light,” and “Undertale.”
A recent Senate inquiry recommended that “GoreBox” be blocked temporarily and issued warnings to platforms like Roblox over child-grooming risks. Sen. Risa Hontiveros said the real enemy was adult groomers and extremist rings, like the global 764 Network, that “target, brainwash, and radicalize vulnerable children into committing real-world acts of violent extremism.” Access to these online video games and websites is provided by our internet service providers (ISPs).
Systemic failures
Some commentators and cybersecurity experts, and even some lawmakers, point to deep-seated systemic failures of telecommunications corporations (telcos), like PLDT Inc., Globe Telecom, and DITO Telecommunity, and their associated ISPs that allow the proliferation of violent video games, and child abuse and exploitation, over their servers without obeying or implementing the law on it. They point out that officials of the National Telecommunications Commission, led by Ella Blanca B. Lopez, failed to monitor and implement the law to restrict the proliferation of abusive material detrimental to children. They should block violent and gory video games like GoreBox and others that show murder and dismemberment. They fail with the telcos by allegedly allowing child sexual abuse videos and photos and the livestreaming of child abuse.
We are all captives of the telcos and their ISPs. They fail to implement Section 9 of Republic Act 11930 that requires them to install robust, state-of-the-art technology, programs, or software to filter and block access to child sexual abuse or exploitation materials. What does the nation want their children to experience when they play soul-crushing games full of bloodshed? It’s better to nurture children’s minds and hearts and promote positive, value-forming video games that give hope, inspiration and knowledge; build their players’ self-confidence; and empower them with virtues and values while being full of fun.
Playing violent video games has also offered a virtual escape from childhood abuse and bullying. A United Nations Children’s Fund report says children in the Philippines continue to experience alarmingly high levels of violence, abuse and exploitation, which are heavily amplified by online platforms. The Philippine Social Science Council has cited recent data showing there are systemic violations of children’s rights at home, including violent discipline and sexual abuse. Online bullying, cyberviolence, and even child labor remain deeply entrenched. All of these issues need full attention.
Common sense will tell us that constantly shooting and stabbing people dead online must have some negative emotional and psychological effects on both adults and children. While experts emphasize that playing violent video games does not automatically cause a child to become a killer, social media and gaming algorithms are heavily blamed for gang violence on the streets. These algorithms repeatedly serve graphic, violent and aggressive content to minors. This desensitizes children and normalizes violence and lethal aggression. Don’t be surprised that there are so many school shootings in the United States. Research referenced by Harvard Health and the National Center for Health Research shows studies establishing violent video games as a risk factor for aggression. It confirms that playing them can increase aggressive thoughts, feelings and behaviors, and decrease empathy. But other studies show that real-world severe violence is driven by family history, genetic predisposition, mental illness, abusive environments, peer delinquency, and access to weapons. Video games, they say, do not serve as a primary catalyst for criminal actions.
Children get involved in criminal activity mostly because of neglect, cruelty, hunger, bullying and physical and sexual abuse by adults. They are children with urgent needs. Criminalizing children by lowering the age of criminal responsibility is not a solution. They need help, not punishment and more cruelty. Acceptance, positive reinforcement, support, understanding, education, therapy and moral values taught by a caring adult will help them grow and change. This writer has seen many hundreds of young people in conflict with the law start anew through the work of the Preda Foundation, from the time of its establishment in 1974 to the present.
What does the nation want their children to virtually experience: violent and gory games, or inspiring, educational, value-forming and character-building games? That decision lies with the government, as well as every parent and child.
El Niño farm losses push jobless Filipinos to 2.5 million in May
El Niño farm losses push jobless Filipinos to 2.5 million in May | ||
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Jobless Filipinos increased in number by nearly half a million to 2.5 million in May 2026 from 2.03 million a year earlier, driven largely by employment losses in the agriculture and forestry sectors as weather-related disruptions, including El Niño, weighed on opportunities. Read more |
What are some mind blowing facts about Germany?
- Germany is one of the most densely populated countries in the world with a population of 82 million among which 15 million people are of non-German descent.

- There are over 150 castles in Germany.
- The Christmas tree (Tannenbaum) tradition came from Germany.

- Beers
There are 1,300 beer breweries in Germany, nearly four times as many as all the other countries in the EU combined, making some 5,000 kinds of beer. German people are the world's third biggest beer drinkers after the Czechs and Austria.
This love affair is truly made manifest during a span between late September and early October, when Oktoberfest is celebrated in Munich. Millions from around the world flock to the city to take part in the spectacle, where girls in dirndl dresses serve very strong beer in Maßkrug one-liter mugs. Perhaps not surprisingly, this excessive consumption can lead to problems, such as people fighting or passing out from intoxication. Those given to such massive overindulgence are dubbed Bierleichen (beer corpses).

- Germany is one of the last Western European countries not to have banned smoking in workplaces, and restaurants.
One of the political reason for this is that the Nazi officially frowned on smoking, and post-war German legislators have been afraid of imitating Nazi regulations. - The oldest sun observatory currently known in Europe is the so-called Goseck circle in Saxony-Anhalt. It was built some 7,000 years ago.
- Ulm Cathedral is the tallest church in the world, with 161.53 metres (530 feet) in height.

- The German Autobahn
It is the oldest motorway network in the world (first section completed in 1932), as well as one of the densest (12,000 km for a country of 357,021 km²). It is also the only one in Europe to have no general speed limit. 65% of the Autobahn (highway) has no speed limit. The federal expressways of Germany are known for one thing—their lack of speed limit. With the exception of certain areas, such as those under construction, the entire network of highways operates under an unenforced advisory limit of 130 kph (81 mph). Studies have shown that despite the potential for recklessness, the average driver clocks in around 140 kph (87 mph). Germany is, however, the home of several high-performance automobile manufacturers, like Mercedes, Porsche, Audi, and BMW, and it is not uncommon to see vehicles traveling in excess of 240 kph (150 mph). While accidents are comparatively rare on the autobahn, any crash at such a speed is catastrophic.
- Wedding Abductions
In rural sections of Germany, the bride is often “kidnapped” by friends prior to the wedding, forcing the groom to hunt for her. Typically, she is moved between a series of taverns. The husband-to-be buys his friends rounds of beer as he searches for his fiance. It is not unheard of for this ritual to devolve into drunken chaos.
References:
http://www.eupedia.com/germany/trivia.shtml
http://truenomads.com/2013/04/interesting-facts-about-germany/
http://listverse.com/2013/07/21/ten-fascinating-facts-about-germany/
WHEN TO BE SILENT
1. Be silent - in the heat of
anger.
2. Be silent - when you don't
have all the facts.
3. Be silent - when you
haven't verified the story.
4. Be silent - if your words
will offend a weaker Person.
5. Be silent - when it is time
to listen.
6. Be silent - when you are
tempted to make light of
holy things.
7. Be silent - when you are
tempted to joke about sin.
8. Be silent - if you would be
ashamed of your word later.
9. Be silent - if your words
would convey the wrong
impression.
10. Be silent - if the issue is
none of your business.
11. Be silent - when you are
tempted to tell an outright lie.
12. Be silent - if your words
will damage someone else's reputation.
13. Be silent - if your words
will damage a friendship.
14. Be silent - when you are
feeling critical.
15. Be silent - if you can't
say it without screaming.
16. Be silent - if your words
will be a poor reflection
of your friends and family.
17. Be silent - if you may
have to eat your words
later.
18. Be silent - if you have
already said it more
than one time.
19. Be silent - when you are
tempted to flatter a
wicked person.
20. Be silent - when you are
supposed to be working
instead.
"WHOEVER GUARDS HIS MOUTH AND TONGUE KEEPS HIS SOUL FROM TROUBLES".
I LOVE MY LIFE!
“Love my life” is a phrase expressing profound personal fulfillment, gratitude, and happiness. It means actively embracing your circumstances, finding joy in everyday moments rather than waiting for perfection, and practicing self-acceptance. Saying “you’re the love of my life” can be done in many ways depending on the vibe you want. You can go the direct route, use creative alternatives, or express it casually through meaningful actions.
If you want to be completely clear and romantic, there are several timeless ways to express exactly how you feel.
Sometimes, we feel our life is turning miserably. Especially now. Living with the big “C”! Our negativism doesn’t allow us to keep our eyes, ears – and, most important! – our minds, hearts and souls opened. We’re reaching our breaking point. Me and you!
Research shows that men tend to fall in love faster and more often than women. Studies reveal that men often develop feelings within a month of meeting someone, while women typically take longer. However, once women do fall in love, they tend to experience it more intensely and with deeper commitment
This breaking point can be the prelude to our strongest moment. Can be! Must not! But try it! Despite the virus! But if yes, then it is when we reach our breaking point, we discover our real strength. Allow me to ask you, my dear readers: “What happens to you or with you when you reach your breaking point?” Do you face it or do you run away? I’ll be giving you a very simple answer: If you face it – you break it. If you run away (and/or close your ears, eyes and mouth) – it breaks you!
Are you in love with life? No? Why not? Sure, in my previous column at this corner, I stated that it’s okay if you feel bad. But many have taken this as a general instruction.
Everyday – a dull reality! Many of us will answer this question with a big YES! Actually, we do like to cover a newborn day already with a grey veil.But, each day has a new face, but sometimes we don’t have the strength to watch its countenance. Of course, not every day has adventures and highlights. Would be really too easy!
Contrary to what might be expected, I look back on experiences that, at the same time, seemed especially desolating and painful with a particular satisfaction. Indeed, everything I have learned, everything that has truly enhanced and enlightened my existence, has been through affliction and not through happiness.
If it ever were to be possible to eliminate affliction from your earthly existence, the result would not be to make life delectable, but to make it too banal and trivial to be endurable.
By observation, we can feel that many of us need help to manage our everyday life. We need something that would keep us going as we journey through life. Many times we can also learn from other people and their experiences.
And here is one more thing: Affection is the humblest love – it gives itself no airs. It lives with humble and private things: soft slippers, old clothes, old jokes, and the thump of a sleepy dog’s tail on the kitchen floor. The glory of affection, the disposition of mind, the good will and tender attachment, that can unite those who are not “made for one and another”! .
For me life has been a thing of ups and downs in approximately equal measure. I don’t have something sensational to report every day about my progress. Often, I wonder if fulfillment in life is necessarily tied to change for the better. But one thing is for sure: I keep staying in love with life. Maybe you can feel my great optimism …. .



