You plan to move to the Philippines? Wollen Sie auf den Philippinen leben?

There are REALLY TONS of websites telling us how, why, maybe why not and when you'll be able to move to the Philippines. I only love to tell and explain some things "between the lines". Enjoy reading, be informed, have fun and be entertained too!

Ja, es gibt tonnenweise Webseiten, die Ihnen sagen wie, warum, vielleicht warum nicht und wann Sie am besten auf die Philippinen auswandern könnten. Ich möchte Ihnen in Zukunft "zwischen den Zeilen" einige zusätzlichen Dinge berichten und erzählen. Viel Spass beim Lesen und Gute Unterhaltung!


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Saturday, August 1, 2026

Girls' Generation member Yuri leaves SM Entertainment after 19 years, stays with group


Published Jul 31, 2026 02:07 pm

Yuri of K-pop girl group Girls' Generation will leave SM Entertainment after nearly two decades, ending a partnership that began with her debut in 2007, the agency announced Friday.

SM Entertainment said Yuri, whose real name is Kwon Yuri, will conclude her exclusive contract with the company on Aug. 31 following mutual discussions.

"It has been a precious time for SM Entertainment to be with Kwon Yuri throughout her entire journey, from her debut with Girls' Generation in 2007... and finally shining as an actress," the agency said in a statement.   

The move marks the latest high-profile departure from one of South Korea's biggest entertainment companies as veteran K-pop artists increasingly pursue independent careers while continuing activities with their groups.

That said, SM Entertainment clarified that Yuri will remain a member of Girls' Generation despite leaving the agency.

"Although her exclusive contract with our company has ended, she will continue her activities as a member of Girls' Generation without change," it said.

Debuting in 2007, Girls' Generation became one of K-pop's defining acts, helping drive the genre's global popularity with hits including "Gee," "Genie" and "I Got a Boy."  

Outside music, Yuri has built a successful acting career, starring in dramas such as "Bossam: Steal the Fate," "Good Job" and "Parole Examiner Lee." She has also appeared in variety programs including "The Zone: Survival Mission" and "Business Genius Baeksajang."

Yuri of Girls' Generation (Instagram)
Yuri of Girls' Generation (Instagram)
Yuri of Girls' Generation (Instagram)
Yuri of Girls' Generation (Instagram)

LIFE IS TOUGH


Ever since I could read I have been obsessed with the power of words, and it’s words that invariably turn things around for me when life gets tough. The phrase "life is tough, but so are you" is a popular reminder of human resilience, overcoming past hardships, and finding inner strength.


The quote means that even though life brings hard challenges and pain, you have the inner strength and power to survive and beat them. It is a message of hope and courage.


Life is full of ups and downs. It's okay to find yourself feeling frustrated and lost when you're going through some hard times. Accept whatever negativity you have to face, and choose to face them with a positive attitude.


Life can be tough, and it's not your fault. Despite what many people might say, you are not responsible for the challenges that come your way. There are many factors that contribute to the difficulties we face in life, and it's important to recognize that they are not always within our control.


When you make your way through tough times, you'll become stronger and more successful in life. That's why the phrase “what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger” really does ring true. The wisest and most well-rounded people you meet are usually those who have gone through tough times themselves.


Putting yourself through hard things, and holding yourself accountable will automatically build discipline and mental strength. You will be so locked in, and disciplined, that exercise will be an essential part of your day. Because of that, you will become stronger and in better shape than you've ever been in.


“In this life, people will love you and people will hate you and none of that will have anything to do with you.” — Abraham Hicks


So important to remember when life gets tough.


Every time I speak at a public event, give an opinion at a meeting, go to a networking event, or just meet new people, I think of this quote.


At the end of the day, what other people think doesn’t matter as much as we think it does.


Haters gonna hate, likers gonna like, and life goes on.


There were some tough days, there were some good days, but you have to just keep going, keep dreaming, and keep believing.


Buddha’s famous saying tells us: “It is your resistance to ‘what is’ that causes your suffering.” Think about that for a minute. It means that our suffering only occurs when we resist how things are. If you can change something, then take action! Change it! But if you can’t change it, then you have two choices: (1) either accept it and let go of the negativity, or (2) make yourself miserable by obsessing over it.



 

How thinking about the future makes life more meaningful


 The Daily Guardian is a renascent Iloilo-based publishing firm and media outfit with bureaus across Western Visayas and beyond. Led by Iloilo's most respected journalists, we pledge to tell the Ilonggo story as seen through the various lenses of society so that every side may be told.


August 1, 2026

By Klaus Döring


During these awful and negative times around the world, thinking about the future does not really keep me positive.


Well, mindfulness is all the rage these days, and for good reason. Focusing on the moment can improve our well-being, foster compassion, and help our relationships. What about going beyond the present moment? Yes, thinking about the future can trigger anxiety — but a growing body of research suggests that it can also make our lives more meaningful.


Humans aren’t alone in having some ability to consider the future, a process that scientists call “prospection.” After all, your dog gets excited when they see you holding a leash because they anticipate that a walk is imminent; your cat may show similar excitement at the sound of a can being opened. There’s even evidence that some animals — like bonobos and ravens — can choose and save tools that they plan to use in the future.


But prospection’s unique benefits for humans extend beyond those of other animals. Not only do we fantasize about our next vacation or decide whether it would be better to take the stairs or the elevator, but we can also look far into the future: We might save for our children’s education or plan for our retirement decades from now. We can make predictions about our own futures based on what we’ve learned from other people’s experiences and even from characters in books and movies. And we can consider multiple directions our futures might take.


It is this remarkable ability to simulate our possible futures that makes prospection special. Just as gold prospecting may literally make you rich, studies suggest that prospection about your future can enrich your life in at least four ways.


Perhaps one of the most fundamental and important functions of prospection is that it helps us decide how to act: Thinking about what the future likely holds helps us decide what course to take in the here and now. Several studies have examined how thinking about the future shapes our decision-making.


Researchers have been particularly interested in the psychology that drives our process of deciding between receiving something now and receiving something of greater value later. In general, people tend to choose smaller but more immediate rewards over larger rewards that they have to wait for, a phenomenon known as “delay discounting.”


But they don’t always choose short-term rewards over long-run gains. For instance, studies have shown that a present-day connection to a possible future event can counteract delay discounting.


Another study showed that participants who felt closer to their future selves were more willing to wait for a larger reward than those who anticipated that they would change; the same was true when they were asked to make decisions on behalf of a fictional character who they knew would go through a life-changing event, such as a religious conversion or returning home from war.


While interesting in its own right, this research could have important personal ramifications. If people could be made to feel a more immediate connection to their eventual retirement and the consequent drop in income, they may be more motivated to make prudent decisions.


In fact, one experiment found that manipulating how people think about the time until their retirement — in days rather than years — caused them to plan to start saving for retirement sooner because the shift in time perspective made the participants feel more connected to their future selves. A 2014 study found that viewing realistic, computer-generated images of what they might look like in the future decreased their discounting of future rewards and led them to contribute more to a hypothetical retirement account.


Prospection has another important application: It motivates us to achieve our goals. But the relationship here is not a simple one. Work by psychologist Gabriele Oettingen and colleagues shows that whether thinking about the future helps us actually reach our goals depends on how we think about the future.


In fact, research has found that positive thinking about our future can backfire. The more people positively fantasize about successfully reaching their goals, the less effort they actually put into realizing them. For example, in one study, the people who fantasized more about successfully losing weight actually lost less weight. Another study found that students who fantasized about their transition into a professional career were less successful in their job searches, and that students who dreamed more about their crushes were less likely to start relationships with them.


Importantly, both of these studies found the opposite effect of having positive expectations, or “judging a desired future as likely.” People who expected to lose weight were more likely to actually lose weight; students who expected they would find a job were more likely to actually land one; and students who expected to enter a relationship with their crush were more likely to actually do so.


It makes sense that having positive expectations — optimism, essentially — could increase our ability to achieve our goals, but why might fantasizing about the future actually decrease the chance of achieving what we want? Because, write Oettingen and Klaus Michel Reininger, positive fantasies “lead people to mentally enjoy the desired future in the here and now, and thus curb investment and future success.”


But often our goals come from our fantasies. We want to excel at work, find Mr. or Mrs. Right, or run a marathon. How do we turn these fantasies into behaviors that can help us reach our goals? Research suggests that while optimism is important, it is also helpful to draw a contrast between our fantasies and our current reality, which allows us to see barriers that must be overcome.


For example, one study asked students to mentally contrast their positive fantasies about benefiting from a vocational training program with aspects of the program that could impede their progress. This reflection caused students who expected to do well in the program to commit more fully and those who expected to do poorly to commit less — again pointing to the importance of optimistic expectations for success. But the mental contrast was also key: Positive expectations did not increase commitment in participants who were not assigned to compare their present situation with their future desires.


Results from a later study suggest that the effectiveness of mental contrasting is due to “energization” — meaning that when people have high expectations for succeeding at something, considering what might impede their goals gives them energy to try to overcome those barriers. In other words, it helps to stress yourself out a little bit.


Mental contrasting, particularly when used in conjunction with “implementation intentions” — making plans to help move past potential barriers — has been shown to help people reach their goals. To describe this process, Oettingen and colleagues use the acronym WOOP: Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan. In studies, WOOP-type interventions have helped people break a bad snacking habit, get more exercise, and improve academic performance.


Thus, research suggests that thinking about the future can motivate us to take the steps necessary to reach our goals — but only if we take obstacles into account.


Discover the four stages of change. Find out how to set up the right environment for changing your habits.


How to choose goals that make you come alive.


Besides helping us make decisions and reach our goals, there is evidence that prospection may improve psychological health more generally. It might even help people who are struggling with depression and those recovering from trauma.


Indeed, some researchers posit a link between poor prospection and certain psychological disorders, such as depression.


“We see faulty prospection as a core underlying process that drives depression,” write psychologists Martin Seligman and Anne Marie Roepke in the book “Homo Prospectus.” In particular, they note that people with depression imagine possible futures that are more negative than those imagined by people without depression. Moreover, people with depression tend to overestimate risk and have more pessimistic beliefs about the future.


One way to engage in anticipatory savoring, suggested by Roepke and Seligman in a review article, is to modify the “three good things” gratitude exercise. Instead of writing three good things that happened today, you can write three good things you anticipate happening tomorrow and what you can do to make it more likely that those things will actually happen. For people who are struggling, they also suggest writing down three methods that could be used to mitigate disappointment if the good things do not happen. These could include coping strategies, such as exercising or reaching out to a friend, or alternative strategies for making the good thing happen. For example, if a friend canceled lunch, you could suggest having lunch the following week.

While there’s a lot left for researchers to discover about prospection, you don’t need to wait for their published studies. You can try your own experiments right now to see if prospection helps you live a more generous, happier, and more meaningful life.

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Friday, July 31, 2026

DIE DAME DER NACHT - THE LADY OF THE NIGHT

 

Klaus Doring doringklaus@gmail.com

Tue, Nov 21, 2023, 1:31 PM
to MindanaoJoel

Philippinische Märchen/Philippine Fairy Tales 





DIE DAME DER NACHT


Davon erfuhr Sultan Baranggay; er wollte es nicht zulassen, dass die Prinzessin das Schicksal mit einem einfachen Gärtner teile. Er beschloss, den Jüngling zu verjagen. Man vertrieb ihn in den Abendstunden aus dem Palast, als er sich mit der Liebsten treffen wollte. Prinzessin  Bartuha ahnte nicht, was ihr Vater getan hatte und ging ruhig in den Garten  zu ihrem Stelldichein.

Der Jüngling kam jedoch nicht. Stunde um Stunde verrann, und er war nirgends zu sehen. Da begriff die Prinzessin , dass sie ihn nie wiedersehen würde. Sie brach in Tränen aus und flehte zu Gott: "Gott, du weisst, wie schwer es mir um's Herz ist. Ich will ohne meinen Liebsten nicht leben. Verwandele mich in eine Blume, die in den Nächten, die der heutigen Nacht gleichen werden , ihren Duft über den ganzen Garten  verbreiten wird. Ich will mich in eine Blume  verwandeln, ich will hier in Treue auf meinen Liebsten warten."

Der Sultan, der seiner Tochter gefolgt war, erstarrte vor Grauen, als er sah, wie sich Prinzessin Bartuha in eine Pflanze verwandelte. Gleich darauf sprossen auf ihre Blüten, die einen feinen Duft ausströmten. Der Sultan schrie auf, doch es war zu spät.

Die Pflanze, die nachts so lieblich duftet, wird 'Dame der Nacht' (Lady of the Night) genannt.

[Translation (C) Dr. Anna Fialova, 1978 - erschienen im Verlag Werner Dausien, Hanau/Main und im Verlag Mlade leta, Bratislava, CSSR.]

THE LADY OF THE NIGHT

Sultan Baranggay found out about this; He didn't want to allow the princess to share her fate with a simple gardener. He decided to drive the young man away. He was driven out of the palace in the evening hours when he wanted to meet his sweetheart. Princess Bartuha had no idea what her father had done and calmly went into the garden for her tryst.

However, the youth did not come. Hour after hour passed and he was nowhere to be seen. Then the princess realized that she would never see him again. She burst into tears and pleaded with God: "God, you know how heavy my heart is. I don't want to live without my loved one. Turn me into a flower that in the nights that will be like tonight, will spread its scent over the entire garden. I want to transform myself into a flower, I want to wait here faithfully for my loved one."

The Sultan, who had been following his daughter, froze in horror when he saw Princess Bartuha turn into a plant. Immediately afterwards, their flowers sprouted and exuded a delicate scent. The Sultan screamed, but it was too late.

The plant that smells so sweet at night is called 'Lady of the Night'.

Foreign Exchange Rates | July 31, 2026

 Foreign Exchange Rates | July 31, 2026

Chameleons thump Solar Spikers to finally nail first win


Published Jul 30, 2026 06:56 pm

At A Glance

  • Veteran spiker Myla Pablo spearheaded the Chameleons' assault with an all-around game of 12 points, four blocks and one ace to finish with 17 points for their first win in two outings.  


Myla Pablo scores for Nxled. (PVL Images)
Nxled made short work of Capital1, 25-17, 25-23, 25-18, to finally barge into the win column in the PVL On Tour at the Chavit Coliseum in Vigan City, Ilocos Sur on Saturday, July 25.
Veteran spiker Myla Pablo spearheaded the Chameleons’ assault with an all-around game of 12 points, four blocks and one ace to finish with 17 points for their first win in two outings.
The victory somehow erased the sting of a four-set loss to the Creamline Cool Smashers in Ilagan City two weeks ago.
Nxled coach Guidetti Ettore said they tried not to put too much pressure on the game.
“To be honest, I think we just really enjoyed playing today. It was super fun,” said Ettore.
He added they are slowly trying to work on their cohesion with veteran setter Gel Cayuna, who was acquired off-season.
“The setter is basically the coach on the floor, so it’s super important for us to create connection,” Ettore said. “Today, we have some examples of misunderstanding with some combos and this is something that we have to develop day by day.”
Cayuna delivered 17 of the team’s 25 excellent sets for the Chameleons, who saw mostly everyone contributing a little of everything. Jonah Sabete also stepped up for Nxled with 13 points.
While the Chameleons were solid offensively, they also banked on their defense with Pablo and Sabete combining for six of the team’s 10 blocks.
They also limited the Solar Spikers to 34 kills, with no player scoring in double figures.
Shaya Adorador was the best performer for Capital1 with six points.