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Thursday, September 17, 2026

BE STILL AND KNOW

 

By
 Klaus Döring
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WHAT DOES “Be still and know that I am God” mean in Psalm 46:10?

Psalm 46 is a beloved passage in which the psalmist declares that, no matter what is happening around him, God is his refuge and strength. Safe in the assurance that He is God, we can wait on Him even amid chaos. He is still on His throne.

Like many Bible verses, however, this one is often taken out of context and used to convey something that may not have been intended in the passage itself. Well-meaning Christians may use it as consolation in times of worry and frustration — as if God were simply saying, “Relax, I’ve got this.”

In other words: Be still. Stop running to and fro. Slow down. Slow down long enough to listen.

The phrase “Be still and know that I am God” calls us to pause and reflect. It reminds us that God remains in control, no matter what happens in our lives. By being still and reconnecting with our faith, we can find peace even amid the chaos of life.

Why is it important to be still?

Being still is like replenishing our reserves. It gives us the time and space to reflect, gather our thoughts, and actually listen to what is going on within us.

Yes, we are living in a noisy and hectic world. And many times, we ourselves become noisy and hectic. We hardly find time to rewind, slow down, and shut out the daily din and racket. We can become noisy people and even troublemakers ourselves. Have you noticed it?

Making time for moments of stillness can have powerful benefits for our mental and emotional well-being.

Today, however, stillness can be difficult to find. There is simply so much going on — so much noise both inside and outside our minds, so many tasks on our to-do lists, and usually several screens within reach.

According to the Oxford Dictionary, stillness is “the quality of being quiet and not moving.”

Yet moments of stillness are possible even on the busiest of days. They are within our reach whenever we need them. We only have to make room for them.

So many times, our relationships with our partners, friends, relatives, workmates, and neighbors become strained because we are too busy, too distracted, or too overwhelmed to stop, listen, and understand.

Be still and know. Slow down long enough to hear God’s voice, too. There is indeed so much of God to discover if only we would slow down long enough to hear His voice. Yet we can become so overwhelmed by our earthly desires that all we think about is ourselves: “Yes, God, I want You to do this for me — and I want it now!”

What a fatal attraction that impatience can become! Learn instead to wait quietly on Him. When you begin to grasp something of our Lord’s true greatness, you will be truly amazed.

Be still and know.

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How thinking about the future makes life more meaningful

 




By Klaus Döring


During these awful and negative-minded times all over the world, thinking about the future does not always keep me positive.

Well, mindfulness is all the rage these days, and for good reason. Focusing on the moment can improve our well-being, foster compassion, and help our relationships. What about going beyond the present moment? Yes, thinking about the future can trigger anxiety — but a growing body of research suggests that it can also make our lives more meaningful.

Humans aren’t alone in having some ability to consider the future, a process that scientists call “prospection.” After all, your dog gets excited when they see you holding a leash because they anticipate that a walk is imminent; your cat may show similar excitement at the sound of a can being opened. There’s even evidence that some animals — like bonobos and ravens — can choose and save tools that they plan to use in the future.

But prospection’s unique benefits to humans extend beyond those of other animals. Not only do we fantasize about our next vacation or decide whether it would be better to take the stairs or the elevator, but our perspective can extend far into the future: We might save for our children’s education or plan for our retirement decades from now. We can make predictions about our own futures based on what we’ve learned about other people’s experiences and even from characters in books and movies. And we can consider multiple directions our futures might take.

It is this remarkable ability to simulate our possible futures that makes prospection special. Just like gold prospecting may literally make you rich, studies suggest that prospecting about your future can enrich your life in at least four ways.

Perhaps one of the most fundamental and important functions of prospection is that it helps us decide how to act: Thinking about what the future likely holds helps us decide what course to take in the here and now. Several studies have examined how thinking about the future shapes our decision-making.

Researchers have been particularly interested in the psychology that drives our process of deciding between receiving something now and receiving something of greater value later. In general, people tend to choose smaller but more immediate rewards over larger rewards that they have to wait for, a phenomenon known as “delay discounting.”

But they don’t always choose short-term rewards over long-run gains. For instance, studies have shown that a present-day connection to a possible future event can counteract delay discounting.

Another study showed that participants who felt closer to their future selves were more willing to wait for a larger reward than those who anticipated changing; the same was true when they were asked to make decisions on behalf of a fictional character who they knew would go through a life-changing event, such as a religious conversion or returning home from war.

While interesting in its own right, this research could have important personal ramifications. If people could be made to feel a more immediate connection to their eventual retirement and consequent drop in income, they may be more motivated to make prudent decisions.

In fact, one experiment found that manipulating how people think about the time until their retirement — in days rather than years — caused them to plan to start saving for retirement sooner because the shift in time perspective made the participants feel more connected to their future selves. A 2014 study found that viewing realistic computer-generated images of what they may look like in the future decreased their discounting of future rewards and led them to contribute more to a hypothetical retirement account.

Prospection has another important application: It motivates us to achieve our goals. But the relationship here is not a simple one. Work by psychologist Gabriele Oettingen and colleagues shows that whether thinking about the future helps us actually reach our goals depends on how we think about the future.

In fact, research has found that positive thinking about our future can backfire. The more people positively fantasize about successfully reaching their goals, the less effort they actually put into realizing them. For example, in one study, the people who fantasized more about successfully losing weight actually lost less weight. Another study found that students who fantasized about their transition into a professional career were less successful in their job search, and students who dreamed more about their crush were less likely to start a relationship with their crush.

Importantly, both of these studies found the opposite effect for having positive expectations (“judging a desired future as likely”). People who expected to lose weight were more likely to actually lose weight; students who expected they would find a job were more likely to actually land one; and students who expected to enter a relationship with their crush were more likely to actually do so.

It makes sense that having positive expectations — optimism, essentially — could increase our ability to achieve our goals, but why might fantasizing about the future actually decrease the chance of achieving what we want? Because, write Oettingen and Klaus Michel Reininger, positive fantasies “lead people to mentally enjoy the desired future in the here and now, and thus curb investment and future success.”

But often our goals come from our fantasies. We want to excel at work, find Mr. or Mrs. Right, or run a marathon. How do we turn these fantasies into behaviors that can help us reach our goals? Research suggests that while optimism is important, it is also helpful to draw a contrast between our fantasies and our current reality, which allows us to see barriers that must be overcome.

For example, one study asked students to mentally contrast their positive fantasies about benefiting from a vocational training program with aspects of the program that could impede their progress. This reflection caused students who expected to do well in the program to commit themselves more, and those who expected to do poorly to commit themselves less — again pointing to the importance of optimistic expectations for success. But the mental contrast was also key: Positive expectations did not increase commitment in participants who were not assigned to compare their present situation with their future desires.

Results from a later study suggest that the effectiveness of mental contrasting is due to “energization” — meaning that when people have high expectations of succeeding at something, considering what might impede their goals gives them energy to try to overcome those barriers. In other words, it helps to stress yourself out a little bit.

Mental contrasting, particularly when used in conjunction with “implementation intentions” — making plans to help move past potential barriers — has been shown to help people reach their goals. To describe this process, Oettingen and colleagues use the acronym WOOP: Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan. In studies, WOOP-type interventions have helped people break a bad snacking habit, get more exercise, and improve academic performance.

Thus, research suggests that thinking about the future can motivate us to take the steps necessary to reach our goals — but only if we take obstacles into account.

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Besides helping us make decisions and reach our goals, there is evidence that prospection may improve psychological health more generally. It might even help people who are struggling with depression and those recovering from trauma.

Indeed, some researchers posit a link between poor prospection and certain psychological disorders, such as depression.

“We see faulty prospection as a core underlying process that drives depression,” write psychologists Martin Seligman and Anne Marie Roepke in the book Homo Prospectus. In particular, they note that people with depression imagine possible futures that are more negative than people without depression. Moreover, people with depression tend to overestimate risk and to have more pessimistic beliefs about the future.

One way to engage in anticipatory savoring, suggested by Roepke and Seligman in a recent review article, is to modify the “three good things” gratitude exercise. Instead of writing three good things that happened today, you can write three good things you anticipate happening tomorrow and what you can do to make it more likely that those things actually happen. For people who are struggling, they suggest also writing down three methods that could be used to mitigate disappointment if the good things do not actually happen. These could include coping strategies, such as exercise or reaching out to a friend, or alternative strategies for making the good thing happen, such as suggesting lunch next week if a friend cancels.

While there’s a lot left for researchers to discover about prospection, you don’t need to wait for their published studies. You can try your own experiments right now to see if prospection helps you live a more generous, happier, and more meaningful life.


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