PHILIPPINE AIRLINES CANCELS AND RESCHEDULES FLIGHTS AHEAD OF 49TH ASEAN SUMMIT IN MANILA.
This might not be the typical expat blog, written by a German expat, living in the Philippines since 1999. It's different. In English and in German. Check it out! Enjoy reading! Dies mag' nun wirklich nicht der typische Auswandererblog eines Deutschen auf den Philippinen sein. Er soll etwas anders sein. In Englisch und in Deutsch! Viel Spass beim Lesen!
You plan to move to the Philippines? Wollen Sie auf den Philippinen leben?
Ja, es gibt tonnenweise Webseiten, die Ihnen sagen wie, warum, vielleicht warum nicht und wann Sie am besten auf die Philippinen auswandern könnten. Ich möchte Ihnen in Zukunft "zwischen den Zeilen" einige zusätzlichen Dinge berichten und erzählen. Viel Spass beim Lesen und Gute Unterhaltung!
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Tuesday, November 3, 2026
PHILIPPINE AIRLINES CANCELS AND RESCHEDULES FLIGHTS
Nowadays, life is no longer fair
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By Klaus Döring
Saying “life is not fair” means that reality does not operate on a moral system of equal rewards, balanced consequences or guaranteed justice.
Life isn’t fair just because you expect it to be. Life is random. You think it is supposed to be fair, so you have expectations. The key to happiness is letting go of expectations and dealing with what is in front of you. Life is tough. It is cruel at times, but there is also a great capacity for happiness, even joy.
You are the only person who can see things from your exact point of view. Everyone else around you has a completely different point of view. Therefore, people just might disagree with you because your view of reality may be different from theirs. If they disagree with you, they may work against you.
Plenty of people work hard but never get what they feel they deserve. Plenty of people are incredibly decent but always seem to get the short end of the stick. Plenty of people are smart but never seem to apply their academic excellence to entrepreneurial or professional achievement.
Plenty of people fall in love only to see their love squandered on someone who doesn’t reciprocate.
The conclusion most of us reach … life isn’t fair.
Or is it that many of us just don’t understand the “protocol” and have a bad relationship with “fairness”?
Many times, I have observed that children at a young age like to cry out, “It isn’t fair,” whenever they feel they have been wronged. Just a couple of days ago, I heard one father, whose patience was already wearing thin, responding grimly, “Life is not fair!”
Even we adults often have problems with the idea of fairness. The laborers in the vineyard certainly did. They received exactly what they had bargained for, yet they complained when others got the same pay for less work.
If this parable were a story about earned wages, the grumblers would have been quite right to complain. But this story is about the way God deals with us, and how can we say that God is not fair?
Fairness means clarity and being free from fault or stain. Fairness is the light-colored, hopeful and plausible part of our lives — the span between life and death. Life cannot always be fair — of course not! But we could make it a little fairer, though our world is often ruled by falseness.
Fairness requires people to be put into categories. Anyone who fulfills certain requirements will receive a certain reward, regardless of differences in the situation. But only God knows that categories merely outline the sort of people we are. He knows that each one of us is unique and has individual needs.
In our everyday lives, do we really practice fairness in our workplace and in our dealings with others? How? Let’s analyze ourselves. May we learn what it means to be fair to another person.
I learned a lot from Steve Wohlenhaus, CEO of Weatherology, a leading company in the dissemination of audio weather information. Wohlenhaus said, “We need to spend more time focused on the present and less time ruminating about the past. We need to accept the unpleasant aspects of our past and do our best to move on. Concentrate on the present and create a beautiful and better future. That’s energy well spent.
“When we get trapped believing our past defines our future, life seems unfair. When we spend too much time contemplating the future and believe our destiny is outside our control, we feel helpless and life seems ‘unfair.’ Allocating our emotional energy wisely helps us dedicate our time to what truly matters and gain control over the belief that life is unfair.”
Proverbs, probably the most down-to-earth book in the Bible, prepares us for our daily lives. In its prologue, “Purpose and Theme,” it says in 1:3: “…for acquiring a disciplined and prudent life, doing what is right and just and fair.” Colossians adds in “Rules for Christian Households,” in 4:1, “Masters, provide your slaves with what is right and fair …”
Life is unfair and therefore painful enough to cause grief. But the consideration that some good may develop from life’s unfairness still makes living a better option than dying. Life is still good when lived with hope rather than a tendency to give up.
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Monday, November 2, 2026
Michelle Dee has unfinished business in pageantry


From beauty queen to actress, model and advocate, Michelle Dee has shown that there is life — and purpose — beyond the pageant stage.
She first captured international attention when she represented the Philippines at the Miss World 2019 pageant in London, finishing in the Top 12. Four years later, she won the Miss Universe Philippines 2023 crown and went on to represent the country at the Miss Universe pageant in El Salvador, where she placed in the Top 10 and received four special awards. Although she did not bring home either international crown, both competitions helped establish Michelle as one of the country’s most recognizable beauty queens.
Pageantry is, in many ways, part of her family story. She is the daughter of actress and fashion model Melanie Marquez, who won the Miss International crown in 1979, and Derek Dee, a film producer and former action star. Her paternal grandparents were the late Dee K. Chiong, former president of China Banking Corporation, and philanthropist Regina Yui Dee. It is perhaps fitting, then, that Michelle became Chinabank’s first-ever brand ambassador.

But Michelle is much more than her famous surname or pageant titles. She has steadily built her own career as an actress, model and talk show host while using her platform to champion causes close to her heart, particularly autism acceptance, mental health awareness and LGBTQIA+ rights. A member of the LGBTQIA+ community, she publicly came out as bisexual in May 2023, further strengthening her commitment to visibility, acceptance and inclusion.
Today, Michelle is once again embracing the world of pageantry as she prepares to compete in MGI All Stars, a Miss Grand International initiative for women who have previously competed in international pageants. At the same time, she is appearing in “Red Crown,” a GMA Pictures film that brings the colorful and competitive world of beauty pageants to the big screen.
With several roles to juggle and new challenges ahead, Michelle remains determined to tell her story on her own terms. In this interview, she talks about her decision to return to pageantry, the lessons she has learned from acting, her advocacy work and the person behind the public image.
You were crowned Miss Universe Philippines 2023 and were recently announced as a candidate for Miss Grand International’s MGI All Stars. What made you decide to return to pageantry?
“Hashtag ‘Dee Pa Tapos’ has always been more than a name. They’re the people who stayed after Miss Universe and reminded me that one result was never the whole story. I came home without the international crown, but people connected with what we had created. That connection helped me build a career beyond pageantry.
“There is still a moment I want to share with them and my family. My mom, Melanie Marquez, and my cousin, Winwyn Marquez, have each brought home an international crown. I want to earn the third international crown for the Marquez family. Having a career I’m proud of hasn’t made that dream less personal.
“That is what I appreciate about MGI All Stars. It recognizes that there is more to a woman than her last placement. There is everything she experienced, built and became afterward. I think that is a meaningful story to give a stage to.
“I’m a storyteller, so I don’t want to simply repeat a performance people already know. I want to bring those years into the fashion, the performance and what I have to say. I want to win, of course. But I also want someone watching to feel that building a life doesn’t mean they have to let go of a dream.”
Beauty pageants for both men and women have become increasingly popular around the world. What do you think participants gain from joining these competitions?
“You discover a lot about yourself when you prepare for something that matters to you. How do you handle pressure? Can you take criticism without losing your confidence? Can you communicate what you believe in, not just what people expect to hear?
“For me, pageantry also gave a personal commitment a much bigger audience. Autism acceptance comes from my experience with my brothers. The competition gave me an opportunity to bring that conversation beyond my own family.
“There are opportunities, relationships and skills you can carry into other parts of your life. But you have to know why you are joining and what you want to do with the attention. A competition gives you a result. It shouldn’t decide everything you believe about yourself afterward. The real benefit is leaving with more understanding of who you are—and putting that understanding to work.”
You wear several hats as a beauty queen and actress. How do you define these two roles, and what kind of discipline does each profession demand?
“In pageantry, I bring my own story to the stage. In acting, I have to make room for someone else’s. As a beauty queen, I’m conscious of how I represent myself, my advocacies and the Philippines. As an actress, I have to understand a character — even when her experiences or decisions are different from mine. Acting helped me become more emotionally open, and that has influenced how I connect with people in my other work, too. Both involve storytelling, but they require different kinds of preparation.
Emotion comes first in my creative process; discipline is what allows me to deliver it consistently.
“For me, that means knowing the material, respecting people’s time, listening to direction and being honest about the commitments I can take on. Balance also requires a team. There are people behind every performance, and I don’t take their work for granted. I want to be someone people can trust to deliver — not only someone they recognize.”
Tell us about “Red Crown.” What is your role in the film, and how much of your real-life personality can you see in your character?
“In ‘Red Crown,’ I play Wendy Li, the Queen of Binondo. She is very composed, commanding and particular about how she presents herself. The film takes the world of pageantry and pushes it into satire, comedy and a fight for survival. It’s familiar territory, but definitely not a familiar pageant!
“What excited me was seeing two worlds I known— acting and pageantry — come together. There were moments that felt familiar because I’ve lived through the preparation and pressure. I also got to share my pageant experience with the production and help where I could.
“I can relate to Wendy’s attention to detail and the effort behind looking composed. But understanding her doesn’t mean simply playing myself. I bring what I know about that world, then explore who she is within it.
“I think GMA Pictures has created something audiences can have fun with: you recognize the gowns, the competition and some of your favorite queens, but you get to see them in a completely different situation.”
You always look radiant and fit. How do you maintain your figure, and what is your beauty routine?
“I’ve always been active. Weight training, swimming and yoga have all been part of my routine. I prefer a balanced, consistent approach to food and fitness rather than crash diets. I want to feel strong and have the energy to do my work, not only look ready for a photograph.
“For skincare, I like keeping the basics consistent: removing makeup properly, cleansing, using a serum and moisturizing. I’m careful with my skin because work can mean spending a lot of time in makeup.
“And I have to give credit to the people behind the finished look! A red-carpet photograph involves styling, lighting and a glam team. I don’t want someone comparing their everyday reflection to a fully prepared image.
“Taking care of myself should help me feel comfortable in my own skin — not make me feel that I’m constantly correcting something.”
As an advocate for the LGBTQIA+ community, what changes or reforms would you like to see in the Philippines? How are you using your platform to help bring them about?
“I want acceptance to be something people experience in everyday life, not something they only hear in a speech.
“I grew up with acceptance in my family, and I know that not everyone has that experience. As a bisexual woman, this is personal. I want young people to know they can have ambitions and a future without being made to feel that who they are is something to apologize for.
“I would like stronger, enforceable protections against discrimination — at school, at work and when accessing healthcare. Education matters, too. People need to understand different identities, and institutions need clear ways to respond when someone is treated unfairly. Those are changes I want to use my voice to support.
“My own contribution has included speaking openly about my identity and bringing that message into my creative work. The Pride version of Reyna was a celebration of people finding strength in who they are. I’ve also spoken about the importance of conversations around SOGIE equality.
“Visibility is one part of change. I want the confidence people feel when they see themselves represented to be matched by how they are treated when they step outside.”
Comedian Ate Gay passes away
By Neil Ramos
- Filipino comedian Ate Gay, whose real name was Gil Aducal Morales, dies after battling stage 4 cancer. His family asks for prayers as they mourn his passing.

The Power of Positive Thinking
Because negativity breeds anxiety, stress and self doubt.
“What the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”
- VISUALIZE SUCCESS DAILY
Many people struggle with self-doubt and a lack of direction.
Spend few minutes each day picturing yourself achieving your goals.
This simple habit helps shift your mindset to focus on possibility and success.
2. REPLACE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS WITH POSITIVES
Negative thoughts can cloud your judgement and sap your motivation.
When a negative thought pops up, consciously replace it with a positive one.
For example, instead of “I can't do this,” try “I can do this with practice.”
3. PRACTICE GRATITUDE
It's easy to focus on what's going wrong in our lives and forget the good.
Every morning, list three things you're grateful for.
This builds a positive mindset and helps you focus on the good in your life.
“You can't always control what goes on outside, but you can always control what goes on inside”
4. USE AFFIRMATIONS
Self-doubt can hold you back from reaching your potential.
Create short, positive affirmations like “I am capable” or “I can handle this.”
Repeat them throughout the day to reinforce confidence.
5. AVOID THE WORRY HABIT
Worrying can consume your energy and prevent you from taking action.
Instead of worrying, think of positive steps to take.
Focus on actions that lead to solutions rather than dwelling on problems.
6. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVITY
Negative people can drain your energy and impact your mood.
Spend time with people who lift you up and avoid those who bring negative energy.
Positivity is contagious.
“The only limit to our realisation of tomorrow is our doubts of today” — Franklin D. Roosevelt
Why can’t Germans understand Austrian German?
When two Austrians chat casually in Vienna, a German from Hamburg will be completely lost. Yet the Austrians understand the German perfectly—a one-way street built by a media imbalance.
What most Germans struggle to understand is not standard Austrian German, but Austro-Bavarian dialect. The German-speaking world is split by a massive dialect continuum. While standard written German developed from central and southern varieties, northern Germans historically adopted it almost as a foreign language, pronouncing it exactly as it was spelled. This eventually became the standard pronunciation across the region. Meanwhile, the southern areas, which include Bavaria and almost all of Austria, retained their deep local dialects for daily life. Because of their unique vowel shifts, grammar, and vocabulary, that same casual conversation will sound like a foreign language to a northern German. However, a Bavarian from Munich will understand it quite well, because they share the same Austro-Bavarian dialect family.
The reason this confusion rarely flows in reverse—Austrians failing to understand Germans—comes down to media dominance and education. Standard German (Hochdeutsch) is the language of schooling, literature, and formal life in Austria. Crucially, the media landscape is heavily tilted toward Germany. Nearly all dubbed international movies, major television broadcasts, and widely consumed digital content in the region are produced in Germany using standard German.
Austrians grow up fully immersed in the standard pronunciation and vocabulary of Germany. When an Austrian speaks to someone from Berlin or Cologne, they subconsciously code-switch. They drop their heaviest dialect features, swap out Austrian-specific vocabulary—using the German Tomate instead of the Austrian Paradeiser (tomato)—and adopt a standardized speech. The German, having rarely consumed Austrian media or studied southern dialects, simply lacks this daily exposure to return the favor.
What are some things you realize as you get older?
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To avoid disappointment, take people for what they are and not what they could be.
2.
The insults, judgements, and the negativity people attempt to throw your way are actually reflections of their own insecurities and are absolutely irrelevant to you and your life.
3.
People are who they are, and there’s no any other way to look at them.
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Mature enough to wish the best for people who no longer talk with you. Because after all their achievements or failures do nothing for you personally.
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You will continue to suffer, if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. It’s a choice to let dumb things affect you.
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People will disappoint you. So learn not to take everything to heart.
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Be gentle to yourself. Because you don’t need one more critic picking at your insecurities.
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You are allowed to do what’s best for you, even if it upsets people. You are not responsible for how people react, when you’re trying to do the best for you.
Sunday, November 1, 2026
The hope of All Souls’ Day
By Fr. Roy Cimagala
Chaplain
Center for Industrial Technology and Enterprise (CITE)
Talamban, Cebu City
Email: roycimagala@gmail.com
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