This might not be the typical expat blog, written by a German expat, living in the Philippines since 1999. It's different. In English and in German. Check it out! Enjoy reading! Dies mag' nun wirklich nicht der typische Auswandererblog eines Deutschen auf den Philippinen sein. Er soll etwas anders sein. In Englisch und in Deutsch! Viel Spass beim Lesen!
You plan to move to the Philippines? Wollen Sie auf den Philippinen leben?
Ja, es gibt tonnenweise Webseiten, die Ihnen sagen wie, warum, vielleicht warum nicht und wann Sie am besten auf die Philippinen auswandern könnten. Ich möchte Ihnen in Zukunft "zwischen den Zeilen" einige zusätzlichen Dinge berichten und erzählen. Viel Spass beim Lesen und Gute Unterhaltung!
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Monday, August 17, 2026
Did you know God rejoices over you with singing?
Conflicts – Part of Our Lives

WE are in conflict with ourselves many times during life. Our future gives cause for concern; the past is captured, therefore we miss the future.
The grief and sorrow asked the hope, “How are you?” The hope answered, ” I am a little bit low and sad today!” The sorrow replied sarcastically, “I hope so!”
Conflict is the result of opposing thoughts, actions or ideas disrupting the status quo. Conflict is seen in everyday life, and is a natural, often selfish, and sometimes productive phenomenon. Because it can lead to violence and war in certain situations, the word ‘conflict’ often appears with a negative connotation.
Conflicts are inherent to human life, stemming from differences in opinions, values, or competition for resources. These conflicts can manifest in various forms, from interpersonal disagreements to larger-scale societal or international disputes.
Conflict is in our very nature. Every day, large or small, human conflicts are all around us. But conflict is simply a result of problems being tangled up with the darkside of human nature emerging from innate protection and competition motivations that have evolved over millions of years to help us survive, and that come with difficult tradeoffs.
When conflict is mismanaged, it can cause great harm to a relationship, but when handled in a respectful, positive way, conflict provides an opportunity to strengthen the bond between two people. Whether you’re experiencing conflict at home, work, or school, learning these skills can help you resolve differences in a healthy way and build stronger, more rewarding relationships.
When people get angry with each other, they often say or do things without realizing the cause of their feelings. Understanding the dynamics behind a conflict can make it easier to resolve issues. This insight also can help you mediate a conflict between friends and relatives. Many experts break personal and professional conflicts down into basic types, based on the underlying causes of disagreements and the dynamics.
Nobody really knows what might happen after reaching the retirement age. Sure, if we can observe our neighbors and all other people in our surroundings, we really don’t like to know it. If we treat ourselves with care, our real age will not be shown. I won’t make any secret about celebrating my 72th birthday sometime this year. I am proud to reach this age with God’s help.
It seems that the respectable treatment of our beloved seniors around us are disappearing into the past and are forgotten by the younger generation. Praising the elderly nowadays means to attest to their impudent and imperishable youthfulness. I am sure, with His help many seniors are still strong, still indefatigable, still a phenomenon, still intellectual and still spiritual on top!
Let’s not forget our respect, when sometimes just being artificial or affected by stammering, that “our old lady” or “our old gentleman” hasn’t become senile yet.
On our way to an honorable and respectful age we should try to fulfill some of our greatest longings in life.
During the last decades, I met many people around the whole globe. Unbelievable, I found out, no matter where in this world, the conflicting attitude is everywhere. “It’s an absolute certainty, those doubts are the main certainty!” stressed already the German author, philosopher and dramatist Bertolt Brecht (1898-1956).
Please allow me, once in a while, to be able to say NO. Please allow me to delete inferior and defeatist feelings. Please allow me to admit that I can’t do everything during a single day. Please allow me to no longer be afraid about other people and their spiteful comments about me.
Please allow me to accept my silence. Please accept me being terribly tired from time to time. Please allow me to be excused even without having an intelligent reply. Please allow me to be carried by salvation and bliss.
Hopefully, we may have enough understanding people with us to accompany us during the voyage of our sometimes very conflicting life.
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The BOHOL TIMES rolled off its first issue in June 11, 1991 in the City of Tagbilaran and the major towns of the province of Bohol. On its 8th year, the local newspaer was awarded by the Philippine Press Institute (PPI) as Best in Editorial Page among all community newspapers in the country becoming the first newspaper in the province to clinch such a coveted award from respected peers in the field of journalism. The same year, the paper also got final nomination as one of the Best Edited newspaper from among the community newspapers in the country. The paper today has evolved into one of Bohol’s leading voices in demanding transparency and accountability among government officials and employees. It continues to banner responsible dissent, and still adheres to the age-old adage of comforting the afflicted and afflicting the comfortable.
Sunday, August 16, 2026
The poor rich young man
By Fr. Roy Cimagala
Chaplain
Center for Industrial Technology and Enterprise (CITE)
Talamban, Cebu City
Email: roycimagala@gmail.com
YES, he may be rich, young, and faithful to the commandments, yet he remains poor in the deepest sense. Though he had accomplished many good things, he still lacked the one treasure that truly matters—to surrender himself entirely to God, letting go of everything so that he could follow Christ without reserve and with joyful freedom.
At first glance, such surrender appears like loss, even defeat, as though everything precious has slipped away. Yet this holy emptiness becomes the doorway through which God enters completely, filling the soul with his own life. There, and only there, do we discover the perfection for which we were created.
Keeping the Decalogue, the Ten Commandments, is truly necessary, for it forms the solid foundation of a good life. Yet it can bring us only to a certain perfection within the natural order. We are called beyond that, into the supernatural life where we become one with God himself.
The lesson is gentle yet demanding: authentic love for God is measured not by how much we offer but by how completely we let go. Only a heart freed from earthly attachments can belong wholly to him. A divided heart may seem possible, but before God it can never truly exist.
There is no middle path in our friendship with the Lord. We either belong to him completely or we remain partly turned toward ourselves. Even if we imagine giving him ninety-nine percent while quietly keeping one percent, the gift is still incomplete and our peace remains fragile.
God asks for everything, because he desires not merely our possessions but our very selves. He invites us to place our hearts, our minds, our souls, and our strength into his hands. As Christ reminds us, we must love the Lord “with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” (Mt 22,37)
May we one day echo the beautiful words of an old song: “I have no use for divided hearts. I give mine whole, and not in parts.” Let that become the quiet prayer of our lives. The journey is demanding, yet with grace and humble perseverance, it is always within reach.
Because of our human weakness, we grow only little by little, learning each lesson in its proper season. Every day becomes another invitation to loosen the grip of earthly attachments. Little by little, we offer ourselves more fully until nothing remains outside God's loving embrace.
The Lord never forces this surrender upon us. He patiently waits for our generous response, gently inviting us to trust that his plans are always greater than our own. Every act of detachment, however small, widens the space within our hearts for his love to dwell more deeply.
We must often remind ourselves that nothing given to God is ever truly lost. What seems like sacrifice becomes abundance beyond measure, for the Lord is never outdone in generosity. Let Christ’s promise remain alive within us: “Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things will be added unto you.” (Mt 6,33)
Our faith and trust in Christ’s words must grow ever stronger. The more generously we give ourselves to him, the lighter and freer our hearts become. It is a beautiful mystery understood only through faith, a reality that belongs to the supernatural life and fills the soul with lasting joy.
Little by little, we learn to release our possessions, our preferences, our opinions, our ambitions, and even our cherished plans. At last, we discover the freedom of giving our whole selves to God alone. In that total self-offering, our lives become one with his, and our deepest identity and lasting happiness are finally found.
Glaiza de Castro gets emotional remembering the late Ricky Davao at '58th' screening
At A Glance
- Glaiza de Castro gets emotional while remembering late actor Ricky Davao after the Philippine premiere of "58th" at Cinemalaya.

Glaiza de Castro was visibly holding back tears as she talked about Ricky Davao after the special screening of “58th” at Cinemalaya Thursday night.
The actress had just watched the film with us at Shangri-La Plaza in Mandaluyong City, and she was beaming as she shared how proud she was to be part of such a meaningful project.
But when the questions turned to Davao, the night became personal for her.
Davao plays her father in the film, but their relationship went beyond what viewers will see on screen.
“Lagi kong naaalala sa kanya, he’s just so jolly sa set,” De Castro told us.
She smiled as she recalled how they worked together on “58th” while also doing “Encantadia Chronicles: Sang'gre” and “Sinagtala.”
At one point, she even teased him about taking on so much work.
“Direk, ang sipag mo naman, parang lahat na ginawa mo,” she recalled telling Davao.
Davao had given her one while they were shooting “58th,” showing her how to use it to secure her lapel microphone. It was something he had picked up from his theater experience.
She eventually misplaced it.
But when she finally found it again, it was also when she learned that Davao had passed away.
Davao died on May 1, 2025 at 63 after battling cancer.

De Castro also shared what Davao's daughter, Rikkie Mae, told her.
She said De Castro was one of her father's favorite actors to work with.
That was when the actress started getting emotional.
“Naiiyak ako kasi special sa akin si Direk Ricky,” she said, noting how Davao had been her director in "Grazilda," her first titular lead role.
“Naging director ko rin siya sa ‘Sang'gre,’” she said.
“Hindi lang siya co-actor for me, siguro siya yung natuturing kong tatay sa showbiz.”
In “58th,” Davao plays Reynaldo “Bebot” Momay, a photojournalist who was among those killed in the 2009 Maguindanao massacre.
His remains were never found.
His daughter, Reynafe, played by De Castro, continues the fight to have him recognized as the 58th victim.
The film has already been screened abroad, including at the International Film Festival Rotterdam and Doc Edge in New Zealand.
But De Castro had been waiting for the film to finally be shown in the Philippines.
“It’s different when it’s shown here in the Philippines. The impact is different,” she said.
“58th” is not an easy story.
The Nov. 23, 2009 massacre claimed 58 lives, including 32 journalists. But because Momay's remains were never recovered, only 57 victims were included in the court's murder convictions.
That is where the film gets its title.
De Castro knows some people may find the subject difficult to watch, but she believes that is also why it needs to be seen.
“I know it’s not a light story, but it’s one of those stories that we shouldn’t forget,” she said.
She is particularly proud that the film can introduce the tragedy to a new generation.
“I’m proud to have been part of it and to be able to share with the new generation what happened.”
“I know na telling this story served its purpose at bilang isang aktor, isa yun sa mga goals ko na makapagsabi rin kung ano yung totoo,” she added.
That is what made the Cinemalaya screening different for De Castro.
She was there to celebrate “58th” finally being shown to Filipino audiences, but she was also watching the final screen performance of someone she considered more than a co-star.
Someone she called her “tatay sa showbiz.”
My Philippines by Mattes
Revisit Manila Bay reclamation projects before floods worsen

𝐎𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝟏𝟏 𝐂𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐥 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐃𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐨 𝐂𝐢𝐭𝐲
We have worked hard to build this unity and to ensure that every tribe is recognized, respected, and heard. Let us never allow words or actions to divide what generations have worked so hard to bring together.


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